"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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average time for phone conversation with a girl?

rocco

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What's the average time talking on the phone for you guys when your gaming a chick?

do you keep the phone conversations short and set up a date?

or do you game for as long as possible over the phone until she's really comfortable and then set up a date?

Usually when I call up people, I just call them up to set up a time to meet and what not, but it seems that some girls looove talking over the phone and that it seems that it may be a requirement in gaming some of these women to talk for long durations over the phone sometimes even hour long phone convo.., but just wanted to get some advice from yall in regard to the phone conversation game with women. thanks in advance
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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War Against Betaism

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It's usually up to me, but I've never had a conversation longer than 30 minutes with a girl.
 

rocco

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do you guys ever call just to talk, without the intention to set up a date?
 

LostAndConfused

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rocco said:
do you guys ever call just to talk, without the intention to set up a date?
Sometimes I tell the girl to call so I can flirt over the phone, but calling to talk is kinda pointless unless you live a long distance away from her.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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AfRoSwiss-Disiac

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Yo u only call to talk without intention of having a date if shes yo girl!!!! stop over analysing ****!! most guys on this website think to much!! juss do it!!
aight but fo real man call her keep it short until the date :)
 

I-tallionStallion

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the point is to keep the mystery....so you call make small talk for a few minutes and ask her out. if she's miles away then you can talk longer. you don't want to kill the excitement haha. But if your suave like me...it doesn't matter how long you talk lol
 

The Deacon

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Aghh, don't think about this too hard bud. If you're setting up a date, don't let it last any longer than 3 minutes. If you're calling out of the blue and just having a nice random conversation, you can go longer than that and play it out from there. Anything else in between, well, I'll just have to tell you to trust your gut on that one cause there's no real specific way of explaining phone game.
 
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