"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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- Thread starter JesterX
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
paraguayandj
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Some will say age is just a number, but people pay attention to it.
Undoubtly those girls that are age 20-24 would PREFER being married/ltr with a guy that is 26-29. So if you're not even 26-29, don't even SERIOUSLY think about serious relationships till that. Don't be that stupid military soldier dumbass marrying at 18 to the first girlfriend he's ever dated and then having 1-2 kids and then coming back from Iraq with only one good leg and a couple of fingers lost back. And he finds out she's gained 50lb, OH HO HO!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
girlsarecrazy
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You know what I find that is kinda humorous to say the least. A lot of the people that have been married for thirty years plus that were the first boyfriend/girlfriend relationships are usually the happiest.girlsarecrazy said:LTR are fun if both people have been through a couple of relationships in the past. Don't hold a LTR each of you are each others first bf/gf.
Of course, these are the groups that are from a bygone era. So maybe that has something to do with it.
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girlsarecrazy
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It's because they both have oneitis for each other.comic_relief said:You know what I find that is kinda humorous to say the least. A lot of the people that have been married for thirty years plus that were the first boyfriend/girlfriend relationships are usually the happiest.
Of course, these are the groups that are from a bygone era. So maybe that has something to do with it.
comic_relief
LTR become real long in these situations:
*One loses their virginity to the other
*One's first serious relationship
*Both don't have a lot of friends besides each other