You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
This is an accurate description of her looks. She is not overweight, which is good. She is not facially attractive.And the only thing even keeping her average is that she's not a whale, as she's a rather unattractive ethnic.![]()
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Her face is blurred but she's obv asian by the voice."unattractive ethnic" ??? What am I missing, the vid has her face obscured so I can't tell. Bummer, I like Asian & Latin women, whichever she is, or if she's passable or not.
It wasn't obscured when I had posted it; BetterBachelor must have obscured it out of fear of getting reported."unattractive ethnic" ??? What am I missing, the vid has her face obscured so I can't tell. Bummer, I like Asian & Latin women, whichever she is, or if she's passable or not.