"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Do you want avatars to be added if possible?

  • Yes, avatars are fun

    Votes: 18 66.7%

  • No, it will **** up my bandwidth/it looks too childish.

    Votes: 9 33.3%
  • Total voters
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Hey,

On many other boards (especially phpbb boards) there is a feature called avatars, but I miss this feature on this site. If you don't know what avatars are, well, avatars are small pictures (80 by 80 pixels max) which appear below your username on the board. I think it should be added if possible. How do you think?

MC
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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i suggested this a little while back and allen didnt respond. i think it's a real good idea to have avatars.. what not, ya know? besides there's a feature that allows you to turn off avatars anyway so if yuo dont want them it shouldnt be much of a problem
 
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besides there's a feature that allows you to turn off avatars anyway so if yuo dont want them it shouldnt be much of a problem
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Yeah, I don't see any problems adding avatars.
They would give users more personality...:p
 
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I'm all for it. We should give it a trial period of a week or so to see how it works out.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Page
bump...

I demand satisfaction! :)
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Bumpers!
me too!

Now Allen put that great 'age-icon' in use, so we want avatars! :D
 
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No avatars. They don't serve any useful purpose and take up lots of bandwidth. But, who knows, maybe I'll change my mind in the future.
 
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Okays..
We will whine more later.;)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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