"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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avatars

Do you want avatars to be added if possible?

  • Yes, avatars are fun

    Votes: 18 66.7%

  • No, it will **** up my bandwidth/it looks too childish.

    Votes: 9 33.3%
  • Total voters
    27
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Mr. Casanova

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Hey,

On many other boards (especially phpbb boards) there is a feature called avatars, but I miss this feature on this site. If you don't know what avatars are, well, avatars are small pictures (80 by 80 pixels max) which appear below your username on the board. I think it should be added if possible. How do you think?

MC
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i suggested this a little while back and allen didnt respond. i think it's a real good idea to have avatars.. what not, ya know? besides there's a feature that allows you to turn off avatars anyway so if yuo dont want them it shouldnt be much of a problem
 
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Hot Ice

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besides there's a feature that allows you to turn off avatars anyway so if yuo dont want them it shouldnt be much of a problem
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Yeah, I don't see any problems adding avatars.
They would give users more personality...:p
 
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I'm all for it. We should give it a trial period of a week or so to see how it works out.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hot Ice

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Originally posted by Page
bump...

I demand satisfaction! :)
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Bumpers!
me too!

Now Allen put that great 'age-icon' in use, so we want avatars! :D
 
SoSuave.com

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No avatars. They don't serve any useful purpose and take up lots of bandwidth. But, who knows, maybe I'll change my mind in the future.
 
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Okays..
We will whine more later.;)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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