"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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avatars

Do you want avatars to be added if possible?

  • Yes, avatars are fun

    Votes: 18 66.7%
  • No, it will **** up my bandwidth/it looks too childish.

    Votes: 9 33.3%

  • Total voters
    27

Mr. Casanova

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Hey,

On many other boards (especially phpbb boards) there is a feature called avatars, but I miss this feature on this site. If you don't know what avatars are, well, avatars are small pictures (80 by 80 pixels max) which appear below your username on the board. I think it should be added if possible. How do you think?

MC
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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sneaker

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i suggested this a little while back and allen didnt respond. i think it's a real good idea to have avatars.. what not, ya know? besides there's a feature that allows you to turn off avatars anyway so if yuo dont want them it shouldnt be much of a problem
 

Hot Ice

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besides there's a feature that allows you to turn off avatars anyway so if yuo dont want them it shouldnt be much of a problem
Yeah, I don't see any problems adding avatars.
They would give users more personality...:p
 

Page

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I'm all for it. We should give it a trial period of a week or so to see how it works out.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hot Ice

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Originally posted by Page
bump...

I demand satisfaction! :)

Bumpers!
me too!

Now Allen put that great 'age-icon' in use, so we want avatars! :D
 

SoSuave.com

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No avatars. They don't serve any useful purpose and take up lots of bandwidth. But, who knows, maybe I'll change my mind in the future.
 

Hot Ice

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Okays..
We will whine more later.;)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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