Master Don Juan
- Aug 6, 2009
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Good point. I was thinking more in the terms of a guy's attitude maybe affecting his hygiene, grooming, and body language, and maybe coming off as bitter and insecure. It's such a feedback loop. Guys who are physically unattractive get negative feedback, which makes them less confident, which makes them less attractive, which makes them less confident. More attractive guys get positive feedback, which makes them more confident, which makes them more attractive, etc.Women can be attracted to jerks and angry/violent men, but if a (physically) less attractive guy is a bit quiet/negative/depressed, suddenly his ATTITUDE is the cause of women not being attracted lol.
Okay, so now you have to 1) Be liked, 2) Be attractive, and 3) Show that you "get it".The ones who got passed this stage, messed it up by doing a bad job conveying to girls that they're someone who gets it.