"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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thanks heaps for the link..
being a melbourne boy, i'm very interested, and perhaps a little threatened by this..
 

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Originally posted by quest
thanks heaps for the link..
being a melbourne boy, i'm very interested, and perhaps a little threatened by this..
Bump :cool: , haha just noticed im mates with one of the guys, ill speak to him about it :p
 

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dead set?
lol.

i'd love to know what level of this he's actually at?

I got a feeling that alot of the guys making money from this are at no higher level then me..
 

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These guys are good. Real good. I know for a fact.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i'm not doubting they are REAL good at the theory.

The practise I don't know?

I only know 5 or 6 guys in real life who can compete with me for quantity of girls.

I'm wondering if these PROFESSIONALS are able to get the same quantity, but with 8s and 9s as opposed to my 7 average.
 

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Y'see, 7's are barely f*ckable in my book. I only allow 8+ into my rotation. And I still consider these guys good.
 

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Originally posted by manuva
Y'see, 7's are barely f*ckable in my book. I only allow 8+ into my rotation. And I still consider these guys good.
you must be the whole package. we'll have to go sarging some time.
 

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Done and done. PM me.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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