"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Attractive women get hit on more by men if their boyfriend is ugly/average at best?

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Don't you think most attractive single men get annoyed when they see an attractive woman with an ugly/borderline ugly guy?

Out of resentment that somebody "inferior" to them has an attractive woman at their side and they don't, doesn't this just egg attractive men on more to hit on that girl than if she were single?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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HI SLOOKS DONT MATTER BUT HOW MEAN BIG TOUGH STRONG HE IS MAY AFFECT IT.... Since most straight dudes dont care about her boyfriends good looks they only care about getting their ass kicked...
 
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I don't care what the boyfriend looks like. If I wanna hit on or flirt with another guys girl I do it. I just don't go over board to p!ss off the bf too much.
 
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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
I don't care what the boyfriend looks like. If I wanna hit on or flirt with another guys girl I do it. I just don't go over board to p!ss off the bf too much.
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i hope you don't do it in front of the boyfriend?
 
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i hope you don't do it in front of the boyfriend?
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Yup, I do it infront of the boyfriend. And when, they get a little jealous of me. They go over to their girlfriend and start making out with her. Trying to let me know she is with him. But, the funny thing is. Most of the time the gf friend tells him to stop or says your being annoying right now. Then, keeps looking at me wanting to talk more.

I usually only do it at parties so I have a reason to be socializing with all the girls.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
Yup, I do it infront of the boyfriend. And when, they get a little jealous of me. They go over to their girlfriend and start making out with her. Trying to let me know she is with him. But, the funny thing is. Most of the time the gf friend tells him to stop or says your being annoying right now. Then, keeps looking at me wanting to talk more.

I usually only do it at parties so I have a reason to be socializing with all the girls.
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Well, if I were the boyfriend I would take it as a sign of disrespect and I am surprised none of these guys have gotten in your face yet or tried to fight you.

I have no problem flirting with a girl who has a boyfriend, just don't do it right in front of him.
 
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Well, if I were the boyfriend I would take it as a sign of disrespect and I am surprised none of these guys have gotten in your face yet or tried to fight you.

I have no problem flirting with a girl who has a boyfriend, just don't do it right in front of him.
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I don't like doing it behind their backs. My ex's would tell me about some guys hitting on them when, I was in the other room. So, I'm thinking; are these guys scared to talk to you when I'm around? Yeah, it's a little disrespectful but, just having fun in a conversation doesn't always mean something. It is usually the boyfriend just being jealous and insecure. Like, I said. I don't go over board. A little flirting, light kino and a simple conversation. Then, I go about my business but, they come back for more.
 
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