"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Attractive women get hit on more by men if their boyfriend is ugly/average at best?

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Don't you think most attractive single men get annoyed when they see an attractive woman with an ugly/borderline ugly guy?

Out of resentment that somebody "inferior" to them has an attractive woman at their side and they don't, doesn't this just egg attractive men on more to hit on that girl than if she were single?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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HI SLOOKS DONT MATTER BUT HOW MEAN BIG TOUGH STRONG HE IS MAY AFFECT IT.... Since most straight dudes dont care about her boyfriends good looks they only care about getting their ass kicked...
 
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I don't care what the boyfriend looks like. If I wanna hit on or flirt with another guys girl I do it. I just don't go over board to p!ss off the bf too much.
 
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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
I don't care what the boyfriend looks like. If I wanna hit on or flirt with another guys girl I do it. I just don't go over board to p!ss off the bf too much.
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i hope you don't do it in front of the boyfriend?
 
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i hope you don't do it in front of the boyfriend?
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Yup, I do it infront of the boyfriend. And when, they get a little jealous of me. They go over to their girlfriend and start making out with her. Trying to let me know she is with him. But, the funny thing is. Most of the time the gf friend tells him to stop or says your being annoying right now. Then, keeps looking at me wanting to talk more.

I usually only do it at parties so I have a reason to be socializing with all the girls.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yup, I do it infront of the boyfriend. And when, they get a little jealous of me. They go over to their girlfriend and start making out with her. Trying to let me know she is with him. But, the funny thing is. Most of the time the gf friend tells him to stop or says your being annoying right now. Then, keeps looking at me wanting to talk more.

I usually only do it at parties so I have a reason to be socializing with all the girls.
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Well, if I were the boyfriend I would take it as a sign of disrespect and I am surprised none of these guys have gotten in your face yet or tried to fight you.

I have no problem flirting with a girl who has a boyfriend, just don't do it right in front of him.
 
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Well, if I were the boyfriend I would take it as a sign of disrespect and I am surprised none of these guys have gotten in your face yet or tried to fight you.

I have no problem flirting with a girl who has a boyfriend, just don't do it right in front of him.
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I don't like doing it behind their backs. My ex's would tell me about some guys hitting on them when, I was in the other room. So, I'm thinking; are these guys scared to talk to you when I'm around? Yeah, it's a little disrespectful but, just having fun in a conversation doesn't always mean something. It is usually the boyfriend just being jealous and insecure. Like, I said. I don't go over board. A little flirting, light kino and a simple conversation. Then, I go about my business but, they come back for more.
 
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