"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Attractive women get hit on more by men if their boyfriend is ugly/average at best?

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Don't you think most attractive single men get annoyed when they see an attractive woman with an ugly/borderline ugly guy?

Out of resentment that somebody "inferior" to them has an attractive woman at their side and they don't, doesn't this just egg attractive men on more to hit on that girl than if she were single?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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HI SLOOKS DONT MATTER BUT HOW MEAN BIG TOUGH STRONG HE IS MAY AFFECT IT.... Since most straight dudes dont care about her boyfriends good looks they only care about getting their ass kicked...
 

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I don't care what the boyfriend looks like. If I wanna hit on or flirt with another guys girl I do it. I just don't go over board to p!ss off the bf too much.
 

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
I don't care what the boyfriend looks like. If I wanna hit on or flirt with another guys girl I do it. I just don't go over board to p!ss off the bf too much.
i hope you don't do it in front of the boyfriend?
 

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devils3777 said:
i hope you don't do it in front of the boyfriend?
Yup, I do it infront of the boyfriend. And when, they get a little jealous of me. They go over to their girlfriend and start making out with her. Trying to let me know she is with him. But, the funny thing is. Most of the time the gf friend tells him to stop or says your being annoying right now. Then, keeps looking at me wanting to talk more.

I usually only do it at parties so I have a reason to be socializing with all the girls.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
Yup, I do it infront of the boyfriend. And when, they get a little jealous of me. They go over to their girlfriend and start making out with her. Trying to let me know she is with him. But, the funny thing is. Most of the time the gf friend tells him to stop or says your being annoying right now. Then, keeps looking at me wanting to talk more.

I usually only do it at parties so I have a reason to be socializing with all the girls.
Well, if I were the boyfriend I would take it as a sign of disrespect and I am surprised none of these guys have gotten in your face yet or tried to fight you.

I have no problem flirting with a girl who has a boyfriend, just don't do it right in front of him.
 

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devils3777 said:
Well, if I were the boyfriend I would take it as a sign of disrespect and I am surprised none of these guys have gotten in your face yet or tried to fight you.

I have no problem flirting with a girl who has a boyfriend, just don't do it right in front of him.
I don't like doing it behind their backs. My ex's would tell me about some guys hitting on them when, I was in the other room. So, I'm thinking; are these guys scared to talk to you when I'm around? Yeah, it's a little disrespectful but, just having fun in a conversation doesn't always mean something. It is usually the boyfriend just being jealous and insecure. Like, I said. I don't go over board. A little flirting, light kino and a simple conversation. Then, I go about my business but, they come back for more.
 
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