"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Attractive Looking guys....

devils3777

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I always wondered how others feel about other attractive looking guys. I am not necessarily talking about guys with movie star good looks but guys who look relatively good.

Do you think attractive looking guys are disliked and envied by other guys

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or do you think attractive looking guys are liked more and admired more by other guys?


Personally, I like the way I look and actually admire other guys who look good as well and don't envy them.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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i went through alot of that envy throughout high school.

i never knew why i was treated badly until I realized it was because I was fairly good looking.

I think it depends on the maturity of everyone else around u

either way its no big deal at all i wouldnt worry about it
 

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It depends on the guy. There are some good looking guys who are extremely cool. A friend of mine is always a huge hit with the ladies. This guy is just a stud. But he is a genuinely nice guy and an awesome guy to be around for EVERYONE.

Unfortunately, there are other good looking guys who, like many people who are blessed with desirable traits, are complete douche bags. Of course, this applies to a lot of people. There are lots of smart people, rich people, good athletes etc. who think they're God's gift to the world and that they are above the rest.
 

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Lexington said:
It depends on the guy. There are some good looking guys who are extremely cool. A friend of mine is always a huge hit with the ladies. This guy is just a stud. But he is a genuinely nice guy and an awesome guy to be around for EVERYONE.

Unfortunately, there are other good looking guys who, like many people who are blessed with desirable traits, are complete douche bags. Of course, this applies to a lot of people. There are lots of smart people, rich people, good athletes etc. who think they're God's gift to the world and that they are above the rest.
I believe that is THE! MOST! dangerous guy, not dangerous in terms of actual danger/harm, but dangerous in terms of attracting puzzy. I know for a FACT! that the good looking + genuine cool/nice guy has the power to pull in wet panties at will. Thats the best combo anyone can have.
 

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devils3777 said:
I always wondered how others feel about other attractive looking guys. I am not necessarily talking about guys with movie star good looks but guys who look relatively good.

Do you think attractive looking guys are disliked and envied by other guys

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or do you think attractive looking guys are liked more and admired more by other guys?


Personally, I like the way I look and actually admire other guys who look good as well and don't envy them.
Its well known that the good looking guys will get envied but someone at one point or another. Other guys check out other guys, not in a gay way but just looking. i get looks from women but then i see guys looking at me too. unfortunately, gay guys give me the look women give me, ugh. sometimes i feel like laughing when their looking at me because of the extreme gayness vibe, i mean come on, a dude checking out another dude, ridiculous. but whatever.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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