"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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devils3777

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I always wondered how others feel about other attractive looking guys. I am not necessarily talking about guys with movie star good looks but guys who look relatively good.

Do you think attractive looking guys are disliked and envied by other guys

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or do you think attractive looking guys are liked more and admired more by other guys?


Personally, I like the way I look and actually admire other guys who look good as well and don't envy them.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i went through alot of that envy throughout high school.

i never knew why i was treated badly until I realized it was because I was fairly good looking.

I think it depends on the maturity of everyone else around u

either way its no big deal at all i wouldnt worry about it
 

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It depends on the guy. There are some good looking guys who are extremely cool. A friend of mine is always a huge hit with the ladies. This guy is just a stud. But he is a genuinely nice guy and an awesome guy to be around for EVERYONE.

Unfortunately, there are other good looking guys who, like many people who are blessed with desirable traits, are complete douche bags. Of course, this applies to a lot of people. There are lots of smart people, rich people, good athletes etc. who think they're God's gift to the world and that they are above the rest.
 

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Lexington said:
It depends on the guy. There are some good looking guys who are extremely cool. A friend of mine is always a huge hit with the ladies. This guy is just a stud. But he is a genuinely nice guy and an awesome guy to be around for EVERYONE.

Unfortunately, there are other good looking guys who, like many people who are blessed with desirable traits, are complete douche bags. Of course, this applies to a lot of people. There are lots of smart people, rich people, good athletes etc. who think they're God's gift to the world and that they are above the rest.
I believe that is THE! MOST! dangerous guy, not dangerous in terms of actual danger/harm, but dangerous in terms of attracting puzzy. I know for a FACT! that the good looking + genuine cool/nice guy has the power to pull in wet panties at will. Thats the best combo anyone can have.
 

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devils3777 said:
I always wondered how others feel about other attractive looking guys. I am not necessarily talking about guys with movie star good looks but guys who look relatively good.

Do you think attractive looking guys are disliked and envied by other guys

...........
or do you think attractive looking guys are liked more and admired more by other guys?


Personally, I like the way I look and actually admire other guys who look good as well and don't envy them.
Its well known that the good looking guys will get envied but someone at one point or another. Other guys check out other guys, not in a gay way but just looking. i get looks from women but then i see guys looking at me too. unfortunately, gay guys give me the look women give me, ugh. sometimes i feel like laughing when their looking at me because of the extreme gayness vibe, i mean come on, a dude checking out another dude, ridiculous. but whatever.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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