"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Attractive Faces

zekko

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Here's an interesting study from the University of Exeter.
It says that newborn babies prefer to look at attractive faces than unattractive faces. This suggests that people are hard wired from birth to prefer attractive people.

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/science/nature/3631018.stm

Just more grist for the "looks matter/don't matter" mill.
I certainly would not suggest that only looks matter, or that if you unattractive game cannot help you overcome it. I'm just saying obviously it is a factor.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Noodles

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zekko said:
Here's an interesting study from the University of Exeter.
It says that newborn babies prefer to look at attractive faces than unattractive faces. This suggests that people are hard wired from birth to prefer attractive people.
I went to the Exeter Uni. Sounds about right...probably three years of work to state the bleeding obvious.
 

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well done finguring that out. HUUUGe advancement here lol ;)

and yes this might be true but as we grow up we are less superficial, in general.
And we are more and more sensitive to charisma
ex: serge gainsbourg and Brigitte bardot:)
 

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man, you guys can sure beat a topic to death over and over and over and over and not provide any new information.
Its like some of you all are so hungry to fail...

you know, I come here always thinking there's probably a bunch of cool folks in here who know some stuff...and I seem to not be able to shake that feeling, but I just got to realize that some of you will forever be an effect and never a cause in life.

I wish i could go one month without seeing a "looks" thread. all you're doing is contributing to the belief that attractive people are better, its that stupid belief that has a lot of guys in the crappy position they are in now.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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blackwolf

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i can tell you now, looks dont mean ****. i know some hot chick and shes been with this ugly bald mother fuker for yeaaarrs.
 

NorwegianDJ

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blackwolf said:
i can tell you now, looks dont mean ****. i know some hot chick and shes been with this ugly bald mother fuker for yeaaarrs.
There's always "this one guy", but I agree, looks dont matter much. Maybe they get some attetion, but if you cant act on it, you've come no further than anyone else. It's like having knowledge without putting it to practice.
 

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I will confess that the reason I posted this was for the benefit of a certain poster who is always talking about "72 Nobel Prize Winners". I thought I would post an actual scientific study that he could look at.
 

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Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder/beerholder.
 

Just a Shot Away

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zekko said:
It says that newborn babies prefer to look at attractive faces than unattractive faces. This suggests that people are hard wired from birth to prefer attractive people.
No, it doesn't. What babies find easier to make out with their blurred version says nothing about what women look for in a potential mate. You drew a false conclusion from a six-year old study. The study DOES say that infants prefer Vivaldi played forwards instead of backwards, so this may indicate that adults preferences in music may be similar to that of infants. Very nice.

NorwegianDJ said:
There's always "this one guy", but I agree, looks dont matter much. Maybe they get some attetion, but if you cant act on it, you've come no further than anyone else. It's like having knowledge without putting it to practice.
Well said. That's exactly right. It's always nice to have people who know what they're talking about on these miserable inexplicably unbanned threads.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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