"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Attraction?

shakin'cakes

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Okay, I'm a fairly good looking guy. I always make this girl laugh and we had a great time together today, and I do it to just have fun, not to impress her. I do everything very naturally and I think I'm pretty confident, but somehow today I was gaming very well and did a lot of kino ( not too much ), and got nowhere? No makeout, nothing. I got a really nice hug at the end of our hangout at the mall, but I was hoping for something more.

What did I do wrong?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Five To One

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It was because you were at the mall. Did you expect her to throw herself on you and start making out infront of everyone?

It sounds like you did a good job though.

Next time you hangout have it at a place that is less public and make a move.
 

shakin'cakes

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Five To One said:
It was because you were at the mall. Did you expect her to throw herself on you and start making out infront of everyone?

It sounds like you did a good job though.

Next time you hangout have it at a place that is less public and make a move.
Wow, having read your post I feel dumb not having thought of that..

Haha thanks man.
 

SinJester

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Did YOU go for the makeout? If you didn't then that's what you did wrong. How can you expect the makeout if you didn't go for it. If it was going as well as you said you should have just gone for it!

Grab her hand. Take her somewhere private. Make out. Simple and easy, your just making it complicated because your analysing. Most of your 'problems' you can probably work out yourself if you think about it. If it doesn't work out as plan don't automatically thing you did something 'wrong'. There are no mistakes, just experiance. There are no perfect DJs, just learners. There's never a perfect pickup because the girl is always a variable you can't control.

Anyway, make the move.
 
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