“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Attraction?

shakin'cakes

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Okay, I'm a fairly good looking guy. I always make this girl laugh and we had a great time together today, and I do it to just have fun, not to impress her. I do everything very naturally and I think I'm pretty confident, but somehow today I was gaming very well and did a lot of kino ( not too much ), and got nowhere? No makeout, nothing. I got a really nice hug at the end of our hangout at the mall, but I was hoping for something more.

What did I do wrong?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Five To One

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It was because you were at the mall. Did you expect her to throw herself on you and start making out infront of everyone?

It sounds like you did a good job though.

Next time you hangout have it at a place that is less public and make a move.
 

shakin'cakes

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Five To One said:
It was because you were at the mall. Did you expect her to throw herself on you and start making out infront of everyone?

It sounds like you did a good job though.

Next time you hangout have it at a place that is less public and make a move.
Wow, having read your post I feel dumb not having thought of that..

Haha thanks man.
 

SinJester

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Did YOU go for the makeout? If you didn't then that's what you did wrong. How can you expect the makeout if you didn't go for it. If it was going as well as you said you should have just gone for it!

Grab her hand. Take her somewhere private. Make out. Simple and easy, your just making it complicated because your analysing. Most of your 'problems' you can probably work out yourself if you think about it. If it doesn't work out as plan don't automatically thing you did something 'wrong'. There are no mistakes, just experiance. There are no perfect DJs, just learners. There's never a perfect pickup because the girl is always a variable you can't control.

Anyway, make the move.
 
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