"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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attraction to other girls changing the way you feel about your gf in a relationship?

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TheTraveller

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Hi,

Have any of you been attracted to other girls while in a relationship and have that change the way you feel about your present gf?

This has been happening to me lately with my gf for almost 2 years and it's very distressing. How have you dealt with this? Brake up with girlfriend for grass is greener on the other side? Or has this simply continued with your gf's to a point where you just say "I'm not ready for a LTR right now". FYI, I'm 27.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Did you start off the relationship both being AFC's and now you became DJ or improved your skill?

Something I see often when couples grow apart is that one person is into self improvement, while the other is not.
 
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Definitely! I've started working out and doing intense cardio sessions as well. I'm trying to improve myself, my health and body. Whereas the gf is not doing any of that. Somewhat disconcerning.
 
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TheTraveller said:
Definitely! I've started working out and doing intense cardio sessions as well. I'm trying to improve myself, my health and body. Whereas the gf is not doing any of that. Somewhat disconcerning.
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Yeah, that's going to become a problem. Everyone wants someone who is at least equal to their position on the ladder. If you start perceiving yourself as having gone up the ladder while your lady stagnates, then you're going to feel discontent and start looking for someone with a similiar value to yourself.
 
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