"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Attraction scenario based on looks/ethnicity/background, what is more likely?

Where does he get laid more?

  • With hot blondes and pale girls

    Votes: 2 40.0%

  • With hot tanned brunettes

    Votes: 3 60.0%
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Let's say you have a guy who looks like Antonio Banderas, so dark hair and borderline tanned skin with good looks.

He goes to a place where all of the women are hot blondes or hot redheads, runs game.

He then goes to a place where all of the women are hot tanned brunettes, runs game.

Where does he get laid a lot more with hot girls?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Latino guys who are phenotypically more European tend to do quite well with all women even if they are darker complexion. Guys like Antonio Banderas in his hayday would be a Latino Chad.
 
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I have an Indian friend who somehow despite being a process engineer then decided he wanted to be a medical doctor and took off to some fvcking place in Ukraine in 2004.

And he got laid left, right and center because women there have not seen a dark skinned man...(he claims that being darker skinned made him super).

He's in his 40's now married to a 22 year old Russian.
 
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Spaz said:
I have an Indian friend who somehow despite being a process engineer then decided he wanted to be a medical doctor and took off to some fvcking place in Ukraine in 2004.

And he got laid left, right and center because women there have not seen a dark skinned man...(he claims that being darker skinned made him super).

He's in his 40's now married to a 22 year old Russian.
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Most likely for his profession/money not looks.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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That is not a good experiment it is like saying if you are too rich which meal you will order chicken or beef , it really doesnt matter if you are too rich. Same here, they are all 10/10 which make the mating too easy for all the sides, talk about the average then all these things will be counted.
 
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bario said:
Most likely for his profession/money not looks.
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Nah.

He quit his job as an engineer and used up his entire savings to study medicine in Ukraine for about 6 years.

He was on a very tight budget.
 
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Spaz said:
because women there have not seen a dark skinned man
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Bullsht!
Firstly entire caucasus region is dark skinned, so much so than N word known in U.S. is used heavily on them. Secondly, Indian men do live in this region, they go to schools and universities here, I can not say that they are successful with women. That left and right thing is due to him paying money for sex, or the fact that he is from the U.S.. No more.
 
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Bullsht!
Firstly entire caucasus region is dark skinned, so much so than N word known in U.S. is used heavily on them. Secondly, Indian men do live in this region, they go to schools and universities here, I can not say that they are successful with women. That left and right thing is due to him paying money for sex, or the fact that he is from the U.S.. No more.
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He studied in Crimea, Ukraine.

I seriously doubt that's there is even a Ukrainian that could compete with the darkness of an Indian Tamil man.
 
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There are plenty of black people here, it don't mean they are successful, they are from Afrika.

It's not his skin, he is pre-selected by being a) from USA, and b) being already accomplished, and c) studying to become a doctor.

(pst. by the way, you can study to become a doctor here, but that degree don't mean anything in the U.S., something fishy)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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In general men prefer lighter characteristics while women prefer dark

But this doesn't mean the third world should celebrate

It's more along the lines of "Greek God" or "Tall Dark & Handsome"

It was never meant to include Indians or anyone else

I agree with Xeno, dark with euro features is a good male standard

But of course there are good looks and bad looks in all cultures
 
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There are plenty of black people here, it don't mean they are successful, they are from Afrika.

It's not his skin, he is pre-selected by being a) from USA, and b) being already accomplished, and c) studying to become a doctor.

(pst. by the way, you can study to become a doctor here, but that degree don't mean anything in the U.S., something fishy)
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He's from Tamil Nadu not America.
 
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While tall dark and handsome was originally meant to describe a white man, usually of Anglo heritage, with dark hair it has a different meaning now. Tons of women will say a handsome Bollywood star is Tall Dark and Handsome and consider a handsome mixed race guy or black guy the same way.

That is all a bit irrelevant because I find that women actually love blond haired white men more than the dark haired ones and most of the white guys slaying are blondes or light brown haired, at least in the US.
 
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