Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Attraction scenario based on looks/ethnicity/background, what is more likely?

Where does he get laid more?

  • With hot blondes and pale girls

    Votes: 2 40.0%
  • With hot tanned brunettes

    Votes: 3 60.0%

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Let's say you have a guy who looks like Antonio Banderas, so dark hair and borderline tanned skin with good looks.

He goes to a place where all of the women are hot blondes or hot redheads, runs game.

He then goes to a place where all of the women are hot tanned brunettes, runs game.

Where does he get laid a lot more with hot girls?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Latino guys who are phenotypically more European tend to do quite well with all women even if they are darker complexion. Guys like Antonio Banderas in his hayday would be a Latino Chad.
 
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I have an Indian friend who somehow despite being a process engineer then decided he wanted to be a medical doctor and took off to some fvcking place in Ukraine in 2004.

And he got laid left, right and center because women there have not seen a dark skinned man...(he claims that being darker skinned made him super).

He's in his 40's now married to a 22 year old Russian.
 

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I have an Indian friend who somehow despite being a process engineer then decided he wanted to be a medical doctor and took off to some fvcking place in Ukraine in 2004.

And he got laid left, right and center because women there have not seen a dark skinned man...(he claims that being darker skinned made him super).

He's in his 40's now married to a 22 year old Russian.
Most likely for his profession/money not looks.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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That is not a good experiment it is like saying if you are too rich which meal you will order chicken or beef , it really doesnt matter if you are too rich. Same here, they are all 10/10 which make the mating too easy for all the sides, talk about the average then all these things will be counted.
 

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Most likely for his profession/money not looks.
Nah.

He quit his job as an engineer and used up his entire savings to study medicine in Ukraine for about 6 years.

He was on a very tight budget.
 

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because women there have not seen a dark skinned man
Bullsht!
Firstly entire caucasus region is dark skinned, so much so than N word known in U.S. is used heavily on them. Secondly, Indian men do live in this region, they go to schools and universities here, I can not say that they are successful with women. That left and right thing is due to him paying money for sex, or the fact that he is from the U.S.. No more.
 

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Bullsht!
Firstly entire caucasus region is dark skinned, so much so than N word known in U.S. is used heavily on them. Secondly, Indian men do live in this region, they go to schools and universities here, I can not say that they are successful with women. That left and right thing is due to him paying money for sex, or the fact that he is from the U.S.. No more.
He studied in Crimea, Ukraine.

I seriously doubt that's there is even a Ukrainian that could compete with the darkness of an Indian Tamil man.
 

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There are plenty of black people here, it don't mean they are successful, they are from Afrika.

It's not his skin, he is pre-selected by being a) from USA, and b) being already accomplished, and c) studying to become a doctor.

(pst. by the way, you can study to become a doctor here, but that degree don't mean anything in the U.S., something fishy)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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In general men prefer lighter characteristics while women prefer dark

But this doesn't mean the third world should celebrate

It's more along the lines of "Greek God" or "Tall Dark & Handsome"

It was never meant to include Indians or anyone else

I agree with Xeno, dark with euro features is a good male standard

But of course there are good looks and bad looks in all cultures
 

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There are plenty of black people here, it don't mean they are successful, they are from Afrika.

It's not his skin, he is pre-selected by being a) from USA, and b) being already accomplished, and c) studying to become a doctor.

(pst. by the way, you can study to become a doctor here, but that degree don't mean anything in the U.S., something fishy)
He's from Tamil Nadu not America.
 

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While tall dark and handsome was originally meant to describe a white man, usually of Anglo heritage, with dark hair it has a different meaning now. Tons of women will say a handsome Bollywood star is Tall Dark and Handsome and consider a handsome mixed race guy or black guy the same way.

That is all a bit irrelevant because I find that women actually love blond haired white men more than the dark haired ones and most of the white guys slaying are blondes or light brown haired, at least in the US.
 
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