"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Attracting women while having a cold.

IRKMAN

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The other day I was on a train. I had a cold was sneezing like crazy. And this cute chick was constantly looking at me. She was being really obvious.But I acted like I didn´t care. Then After the train Was gonna stop I walked and stood next to her without even noticing her. After that she said like. Hey what time is it?

I was like lool come on is that the best line you can come up with haha she started laughing immediatly. If I didn´t have a cold I would of escalated on the spot. she was really lucky I got her phone number tho.

And this is funny cuz I was sick feeling crappy.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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IRKMAN said:
The other day I was on a train. I had a cold was sneezing like crazy. And this cute chick was constantly looking at me. She was being really obvious.But I acted like I didn´t care. Then After the train Was gonna stop I walked and stood next to her without even noticing her. After that she said like. Hey what time is it?

I was like lool come on is that the best line you can come up with haha she started laughing immediatly. If I didn´t have a cold I would of escalated on the spot. she was really lucky I got her phone number tho.

And this is funny cuz I was sick feeling crappy.
NO... you were lucky that she opened you, most girls would wait to be approached ..... you wernt gonna do it yourself......
 

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kingsam said:
NO... you were lucky that she opened you, most girls would wait to be approached ..... you wernt gonna do it yourself......

Well yes your right . I didn´t feel it tho. Normally I would of open her but because I was feeling so crappy and didn´t want to. But I guess she really wanted to talk to me.

How would you handle this situation if you felt sick?
 
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