"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Attracting women while having a cold.

IRKMAN

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The other day I was on a train. I had a cold was sneezing like crazy. And this cute chick was constantly looking at me. She was being really obvious.But I acted like I didn´t care. Then After the train Was gonna stop I walked and stood next to her without even noticing her. After that she said like. Hey what time is it?

I was like lool come on is that the best line you can come up with haha she started laughing immediatly. If I didn´t have a cold I would of escalated on the spot. she was really lucky I got her phone number tho.

And this is funny cuz I was sick feeling crappy.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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IRKMAN said:
The other day I was on a train. I had a cold was sneezing like crazy. And this cute chick was constantly looking at me. She was being really obvious.But I acted like I didn´t care. Then After the train Was gonna stop I walked and stood next to her without even noticing her. After that she said like. Hey what time is it?

I was like lool come on is that the best line you can come up with haha she started laughing immediatly. If I didn´t have a cold I would of escalated on the spot. she was really lucky I got her phone number tho.

And this is funny cuz I was sick feeling crappy.
NO... you were lucky that she opened you, most girls would wait to be approached ..... you wernt gonna do it yourself......
 

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kingsam said:
NO... you were lucky that she opened you, most girls would wait to be approached ..... you wernt gonna do it yourself......

Well yes your right . I didn´t feel it tho. Normally I would of open her but because I was feeling so crappy and didn´t want to. But I guess she really wanted to talk to me.

How would you handle this situation if you felt sick?
 
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