"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Attracting Women Plan

ROOKIE OF THE YEAR

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Hi, can anyone take a look at my plan of attracting women? Let's say I saw a HB10 at the bench one day. A= Me B= HB
Here goes:

A: Hi
B: Hi
A: What's going on?
B: Blah Blah
A; You came here to stare at (BLANK) or daydream?
B; Blah Blah
A: You telling you not here to flirt huh?
B: No , blah blah
A: mmhmm, sure So tell me, what's the craziest thing you ever done this month?
B: blah blah
A: Cuz I don't know man, flirting and fantasizing is pretty...weird to me... you I'm sayin.
B: (Blush) blah blah
A: Aren't you gonna introduce yourself or you gonna keep bluffing?
B: My name is HB
A: You seem like you here for awhile.
B: Blah Blah
A; do you have a social email?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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ROOKIE OF THE YEAR

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You see, I'm trying to be ****y and funny, and acting like if I was in a hurry like David D mentioned. Can anyone give me some honest opinion and what I could have fix?
 

Cod3r

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You better look like me to pull them lines off ;)


-Cod3r
 

everywomanshero

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UMMMMM, you uttered a handful of lines then asked for a 'social email'??? What are the odds of ever meeting her in the flesh again from this?

The idea of being ultra-conservative and 'getting out' of the situation before you 'mess it up' is just going to lead to hoardes of dead-ends in my opinion, even for attractive men.

Instead, I think you should mess it up a little bit. Stay in the conversation for a while. Initiate some kino. Have a few laughs. Tell her about something cool you are going to do. Trade #s so she can tag along. Talk for a few more minutes. Meet her and seal the deal. Be sure to get at least several new numbers each week until you find Mrs. Perfect for a few years or die.

Generally speaking, I like to call girls I am actually interested in and that might be fun. If I can't even get 10 minutes of productive interaction in, then I'm not satisfied she's worth my time to call. There is always exceptions to this, of course.

Something else I've discovered is that it's a good idea for me to call girls I made out with. This is counter-intuitive, because I reasoned that I'd seem not-needy if I just called them 2 days later. After doing some field testing, I've discovered this is Internet armchair rhetoric. I've been far more successful calling the girls to say goodnight and even saying something cheesy like 'just making sure you found your ride home and all'. Many girls later told me they really liked that and it took me out of 'cheesy bar makeout guy' category.
 
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