"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Attracting Women Plan

ROOKIE OF THE YEAR

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Hi, can anyone take a look at my plan of attracting women? Let's say I saw a HB10 at the bench one day. A= Me B= HB
Here goes:

A: Hi
B: Hi
A: What's going on?
B: Blah Blah
A; You came here to stare at (BLANK) or daydream?
B; Blah Blah
A: You telling you not here to flirt huh?
B: No , blah blah
A: mmhmm, sure So tell me, what's the craziest thing you ever done this month?
B: blah blah
A: Cuz I don't know man, flirting and fantasizing is pretty...weird to me... you I'm sayin.
B: (Blush) blah blah
A: Aren't you gonna introduce yourself or you gonna keep bluffing?
B: My name is HB
A: You seem like you here for awhile.
B: Blah Blah
A; do you have a social email?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ROOKIE OF THE YEAR

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You see, I'm trying to be ****y and funny, and acting like if I was in a hurry like David D mentioned. Can anyone give me some honest opinion and what I could have fix?
 

Cod3r

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You better look like me to pull them lines off ;)


-Cod3r
 

everywomanshero

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UMMMMM, you uttered a handful of lines then asked for a 'social email'??? What are the odds of ever meeting her in the flesh again from this?

The idea of being ultra-conservative and 'getting out' of the situation before you 'mess it up' is just going to lead to hoardes of dead-ends in my opinion, even for attractive men.

Instead, I think you should mess it up a little bit. Stay in the conversation for a while. Initiate some kino. Have a few laughs. Tell her about something cool you are going to do. Trade #s so she can tag along. Talk for a few more minutes. Meet her and seal the deal. Be sure to get at least several new numbers each week until you find Mrs. Perfect for a few years or die.

Generally speaking, I like to call girls I am actually interested in and that might be fun. If I can't even get 10 minutes of productive interaction in, then I'm not satisfied she's worth my time to call. There is always exceptions to this, of course.

Something else I've discovered is that it's a good idea for me to call girls I made out with. This is counter-intuitive, because I reasoned that I'd seem not-needy if I just called them 2 days later. After doing some field testing, I've discovered this is Internet armchair rhetoric. I've been far more successful calling the girls to say goodnight and even saying something cheesy like 'just making sure you found your ride home and all'. Many girls later told me they really liked that and it took me out of 'cheesy bar makeout guy' category.
 
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