"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Attracting Women (not for sex or a date)

Eighth Passenger

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Hey, I have a question.

Let's say I know a producer that's looking for girls to perform in some videos. It's nothing explicit (no sex) but the girl does have to be an open-minded. He pays well and I know money can make a person do almost anything. But how should a girl be approached? It's not hardcore porn but the girl will need to be open-minded cause the video's taboo.

I was thinking something like:

"Hi, I don't want to take too much of your time but can I ask you a question? Are you interested in making some money?"

The girl will most likely say yes.

"Cool. Well, you can be paid for something that you do probably almost everyday. The only thing different is that you'll be filmed while doing it. But you can remain anonymous."

The chick will probably continue listening. I'll then explain what she has to do and all that good stuff.

I guess eye contact is still important (to show sincerity) along with a friendly, upbeat voice. I'm just worried that some girl will think I pervert and hit me or something. lol

But my main question is, where are some good places to find girls eager to make some money? Of course they gotta be 18+.

(My partner isn't interested in ghetto girls but I can't scout girls that already have money.)

I'm probably gonna get a thousand questions asking what kind of video. But I'm afraid I can't tell ya.... :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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PeeGee

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My first instinct is to post an ad, but if you're doing approaches, be professional but not AFC, blah blah, you know.
 

California Love

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Be good looking, or hire someone good looking, and its always easy to hire a variety of women. Women will want to get to know this good looking man, and as a result, are more willing to accept whatever offer you may have.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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