"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Attracting Women (not for sex or a date)

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Hey, I have a question.

Let's say I know a producer that's looking for girls to perform in some videos. It's nothing explicit (no sex) but the girl does have to be an open-minded. He pays well and I know money can make a person do almost anything. But how should a girl be approached? It's not hardcore porn but the girl will need to be open-minded cause the video's taboo.

I was thinking something like:

"Hi, I don't want to take too much of your time but can I ask you a question? Are you interested in making some money?"

The girl will most likely say yes.

"Cool. Well, you can be paid for something that you do probably almost everyday. The only thing different is that you'll be filmed while doing it. But you can remain anonymous."

The chick will probably continue listening. I'll then explain what she has to do and all that good stuff.

I guess eye contact is still important (to show sincerity) along with a friendly, upbeat voice. I'm just worried that some girl will think I pervert and hit me or something. lol

But my main question is, where are some good places to find girls eager to make some money? Of course they gotta be 18+.

(My partner isn't interested in ghetto girls but I can't scout girls that already have money.)

I'm probably gonna get a thousand questions asking what kind of video. But I'm afraid I can't tell ya.... :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My first instinct is to post an ad, but if you're doing approaches, be professional but not AFC, blah blah, you know.
 
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Be good looking, or hire someone good looking, and its always easy to hire a variety of women. Women will want to get to know this good looking man, and as a result, are more willing to accept whatever offer you may have.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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