"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Attracting a Friend for LTR: Weird Situation

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This is a long post so bear with me.

I've known this girl since freshman year, didn't talk to her til Junior year. I was gaming her, but then she got back with her BF.

I froze her out when she was with him, never texted her first, and always ended the convo. She flaked on several hangouts as well during this time.

She just dumped her BF for being too clingy, they were together for 3 months, (6 total when they were together before)

She texted me first, blah blah blah, I meet her at a party, her friends and my best buddy ditched it and went out to chill.

She texts me again asking to hangout with my group and me, I only brought my best friend, we went out to eat. I sat across from her, and her feet were extended all the way to my feet, so I played footsies. She does the usual **** test "are you playing footsies with me?" I said "This is my turf, move your foot" So I'm thinking she likes me, she talks about what the ideal first date should be, saying a movie date so the guy can make a move. (We planned a movie date at her house before we hung out)

I invited her to the fair with my friends, she went, I didn't really make any moves just some light kino stuff. I heard from her friends that she had an amazing time at the fair (we went on all the rides together)

Okay so I'm thinking she likes me right? She invites me and my group to hangout. So we go to a supermarket and just mess around, then went to a restaurant (she paid for me).

Her best friend tells me to just be straight forward and tell her I like her. My 4 other best friends agree that I should just tell her. Okay, I tell her. It was awkward, but she said it wasn't. She said it takes time for her to like someone (I figure a nice way of saying no, I don't like you) I just transitioned out of it, made her laugh for a good ten minutes then left her car and went home.

She told me to make a twitter account before I told her I liked her, okay I did. I check her profile, and her tweet read "No I don't have feelings for you, that was awkward. SMH"

Ok I'm thinking great, I should have stuck with my PUA instinct and not have told her I liked her, it's over basically. She just texted me while I'm writing this post, saying she wants to watch a movie together.

What the **** is going on?

I still like her, I don't really care about the tweet. How can I attract her to actually LIKE me?

I'm 16, never had a girlfriend, still a virgin, I have great social value.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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NorwegianDJ

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You like her, that's what matters. Just make a move, that's how you figure out if she likes you.
 

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That tweet she posted gave me a good indication that she doesn't like me.... so I'm a bit sketchy if I should make a move, or she's just saying LJBF

Should I freeze her out? Game other chicks when she's around?
 

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Well her friends must have known that she was into you, as they kept telling you to tell her. At least she was into you at a point not much earlier than that.

Going for other chicks is almost a given, do it. It just makes everything you do with chicks so much easier and relaxed.

Freeze out.. I dont know. It might work. Just remember that if you go for her, or if you give up, you get the same result; but no experience.
 

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as soon as i read the part about the tweet in my head i was like "**** dat *****"... she tried to play you bro, tell her to eat a extra large bag of shrek penis.. learn to controll your feelings and detatch emotionally from her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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