Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Attracting a Friend for LTR: Weird Situation

xCoM

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This is a long post so bear with me.

I've known this girl since freshman year, didn't talk to her til Junior year. I was gaming her, but then she got back with her BF.

I froze her out when she was with him, never texted her first, and always ended the convo. She flaked on several hangouts as well during this time.

She just dumped her BF for being too clingy, they were together for 3 months, (6 total when they were together before)

She texted me first, blah blah blah, I meet her at a party, her friends and my best buddy ditched it and went out to chill.

She texts me again asking to hangout with my group and me, I only brought my best friend, we went out to eat. I sat across from her, and her feet were extended all the way to my feet, so I played footsies. She does the usual **** test "are you playing footsies with me?" I said "This is my turf, move your foot" So I'm thinking she likes me, she talks about what the ideal first date should be, saying a movie date so the guy can make a move. (We planned a movie date at her house before we hung out)

I invited her to the fair with my friends, she went, I didn't really make any moves just some light kino stuff. I heard from her friends that she had an amazing time at the fair (we went on all the rides together)

Okay so I'm thinking she likes me right? She invites me and my group to hangout. So we go to a supermarket and just mess around, then went to a restaurant (she paid for me).

Her best friend tells me to just be straight forward and tell her I like her. My 4 other best friends agree that I should just tell her. Okay, I tell her. It was awkward, but she said it wasn't. She said it takes time for her to like someone (I figure a nice way of saying no, I don't like you) I just transitioned out of it, made her laugh for a good ten minutes then left her car and went home.

She told me to make a twitter account before I told her I liked her, okay I did. I check her profile, and her tweet read "No I don't have feelings for you, that was awkward. SMH"

Ok I'm thinking great, I should have stuck with my PUA instinct and not have told her I liked her, it's over basically. She just texted me while I'm writing this post, saying she wants to watch a movie together.

What the **** is going on?

I still like her, I don't really care about the tweet. How can I attract her to actually LIKE me?

I'm 16, never had a girlfriend, still a virgin, I have great social value.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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NorwegianDJ

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You like her, that's what matters. Just make a move, that's how you figure out if she likes you.
 

xCoM

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That tweet she posted gave me a good indication that she doesn't like me.... so I'm a bit sketchy if I should make a move, or she's just saying LJBF

Should I freeze her out? Game other chicks when she's around?
 

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Well her friends must have known that she was into you, as they kept telling you to tell her. At least she was into you at a point not much earlier than that.

Going for other chicks is almost a given, do it. It just makes everything you do with chicks so much easier and relaxed.

Freeze out.. I dont know. It might work. Just remember that if you go for her, or if you give up, you get the same result; but no experience.
 

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as soon as i read the part about the tweet in my head i was like "**** dat *****"... she tried to play you bro, tell her to eat a extra large bag of shrek penis.. learn to controll your feelings and detatch emotionally from her.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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