There's this girl in a few of my classes that I started liking. I have a good feeling she likes me too cuz when I talk to her she smiles and plays with her hair and what not. In fact in class today she asked the teacher if she culd come to the front to sit next to me. But in class today I asked who she was goin to prom with and she was like her bf. Shuld I go after it?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
attractfed to girl with bf
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Theminatar
Don Juan
I would, right now I'm hitting on a girl in one of my classes and she seems interested. I constantly flirt with her, and am an ass to her at times and she hasn't mention her boyfriend yet. So I wont stop the flirting.Jmac said:
NorwegianDJ
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Simply escalate.
I'd wait untill she was available, and gone for other chicks meanwhile.
I'd wait untill she was available, and gone for other chicks meanwhile.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Analyzeit
Senior Don Juan
It's your choice man, to be a dj you dont have to be a relationship breaker, ect. Infact i personally don't go for girls with bfs. More fish in the sea.
But its your call man
But if you are gonna do it, make sure her bf can't beat the **** out of you lol
And if you wanna save her in your ***** bank for later, make sure you keep away from her now dont slowly escalate and hope she becomes available keep away then come back again but dont be an a hole.
One advantage a man has, is the new guy thing, girls love a new guy especially in HS when its often the same old dudes
But its your call man
But if you are gonna do it, make sure her bf can't beat the **** out of you lol
And if you wanna save her in your ***** bank for later, make sure you keep away from her now dont slowly escalate and hope she becomes available keep away then come back again but dont be an a hole.
One advantage a man has, is the new guy thing, girls love a new guy especially in HS when its often the same old dudes
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
But if you are gonna do it, make sure her bf can't beat the **** out of you lol
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sorry I had to bring this up again. Its something I just cant avoid I started talking to other girls and even had a sexual interaction with one recently over the break. But this one girl Im still just attracted to and I know it might not mean much to you but she keeps sending me signs that she likes me. We work together in every class even when the teacher moves seats she comes to sit with me or she calls me over.
Sometimes it feels as though she is daydreaming while looking at me and smiling. Curls her hair and laughs at my every joke and playfully hits me and whatever. I caught her looking at me a few times when I wasnt looking and she immediately just looked away when I caught her. This sounds silly but Im pretty sure she is attracted to me. I know she has a bf and all but shes feeling me and I cant help it but I feel the same way.
I feel as though im missing an opportunity by holding back and not trying to get at her. Its hard to just stop liking an attractive girl that is interested in you, even though I dont have "oneitis"
Sometimes it feels as though she is daydreaming while looking at me and smiling. Curls her hair and laughs at my every joke and playfully hits me and whatever. I caught her looking at me a few times when I wasnt looking and she immediately just looked away when I caught her. This sounds silly but Im pretty sure she is attracted to me. I know she has a bf and all but shes feeling me and I cant help it but I feel the same way.
I feel as though im missing an opportunity by holding back and not trying to get at her. Its hard to just stop liking an attractive girl that is interested in you, even though I dont have "oneitis"
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your call
It really is your call. I don't like breaking up relationships unless the guy is a douche or whatever. But if you don't care much for the guy, then go ahead. Same goes if the relationship she's in isn't particularly strong. How long have she and her boyfriend been going out?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.