There's this girl in a few of my classes that I started liking. I have a good feeling she likes me too cuz when I talk to her she smiles and plays with her hair and what not. In fact in class today she asked the teacher if she culd come to the front to sit next to me. But in class today I asked who she was goin to prom with and she was like her bf. Shuld I go after it?
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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
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I would, right now I'm hitting on a girl in one of my classes and she seems interested. I constantly flirt with her, and am an ass to her at times and she hasn't mention her boyfriend yet. So I wont stop the flirting.Jmac said:
NorwegianDJ
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Simply escalate.
I'd wait untill she was available, and gone for other chicks meanwhile.
I'd wait untill she was available, and gone for other chicks meanwhile.
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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Analyzeit
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It's your choice man, to be a dj you dont have to be a relationship breaker, ect. Infact i personally don't go for girls with bfs. More fish in the sea.
But its your call man
But if you are gonna do it, make sure her bf can't beat the **** out of you lol
And if you wanna save her in your ***** bank for later, make sure you keep away from her now dont slowly escalate and hope she becomes available keep away then come back again but dont be an a hole.
One advantage a man has, is the new guy thing, girls love a new guy especially in HS when its often the same old dudes
But its your call man
But if you are gonna do it, make sure her bf can't beat the **** out of you lol
And if you wanna save her in your ***** bank for later, make sure you keep away from her now dont slowly escalate and hope she becomes available keep away then come back again but dont be an a hole.
One advantage a man has, is the new guy thing, girls love a new guy especially in HS when its often the same old dudes
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
But if you are gonna do it, make sure her bf can't beat the **** out of you lol
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sorry I had to bring this up again. Its something I just cant avoid I started talking to other girls and even had a sexual interaction with one recently over the break. But this one girl Im still just attracted to and I know it might not mean much to you but she keeps sending me signs that she likes me. We work together in every class even when the teacher moves seats she comes to sit with me or she calls me over.
Sometimes it feels as though she is daydreaming while looking at me and smiling. Curls her hair and laughs at my every joke and playfully hits me and whatever. I caught her looking at me a few times when I wasnt looking and she immediately just looked away when I caught her. This sounds silly but Im pretty sure she is attracted to me. I know she has a bf and all but shes feeling me and I cant help it but I feel the same way.
I feel as though im missing an opportunity by holding back and not trying to get at her. Its hard to just stop liking an attractive girl that is interested in you, even though I dont have "oneitis"
Sometimes it feels as though she is daydreaming while looking at me and smiling. Curls her hair and laughs at my every joke and playfully hits me and whatever. I caught her looking at me a few times when I wasnt looking and she immediately just looked away when I caught her. This sounds silly but Im pretty sure she is attracted to me. I know she has a bf and all but shes feeling me and I cant help it but I feel the same way.
I feel as though im missing an opportunity by holding back and not trying to get at her. Its hard to just stop liking an attractive girl that is interested in you, even though I dont have "oneitis"
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your call
It really is your call. I don't like breaking up relationships unless the guy is a douche or whatever. But if you don't care much for the guy, then go ahead. Same goes if the relationship she's in isn't particularly strong. How long have she and her boyfriend been going out?
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