"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Attracted to a certain ethnicity but hate their culture?

konmai

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I'm mostly attracted to the look of a specific ethnicity, but recently coming into contact them and finding out how they are, I'm going to have to give them up. Do not like their culture or the experience I've had with them so far which is unfortunate 'cause I think they're hott.

Anyone experience the same? Been attracted physically to girls of a specific culture, but once you get involved with them, meet people from their culture... it's just damn, I really hate your culture.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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scholarjan

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I'm attracted to all sorts of girls. I even find girls from my own culture to be a letdown. Why? Supposedly your supposed to have more success with your own race, but that's not always the case....
 

SeymourCake

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I'm attracted to Arab women based on their looks, but the Muslim tradition that goes along with it could be a turnoff. Like the hijabs they wear, and etc.

Not that I have anything against Islam. When a pretty woman wears a hijab, it's sort of an indication that she's sexually repressed and shouldn't be pursued.
 

TillTheEndOfTime

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SeymourCake said:
I'm attracted to Arab women based on their looks, but the Muslim tradition that goes along with it could be a turnoff. Like the hijabs they wear, and etc.

Not that I have anything against Islam. When a pretty woman wears a hijab, it's sort of an indication that she's sexually repressed and shouldn't be pursued.

Not all Arabs are Muslim as your post seems to suggest. There are many, many Christian Arabs from varying sects of the religion, each with a different culture.
 

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konmai said:
I'm mostly attracted to the look of a specific ethnicity, but recently coming into contact them and finding out how they are, I'm going to have to give them up. Do not like their culture or the experience I've had with them so far which is unfortunate 'cause I think they're hott.

Anyone experience the same? Been attracted physically to girls of a specific culture, but once you get involved with them, meet people from their culture... it's just damn, I really hate your culture.
May I ask what this ethnicity is?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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SeymourCake

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TillTheEndOfTime said:
Not all Arabs are Muslim as your post seems to suggest. There are many, many Christian Arabs from varying sects of the religion, each with a different culture.
I know that, but I'm obviously talking about the Muslims who wear hijabs and other Muslim attire.
 
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