"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Attracted to a certain ethnicity but hate their culture?

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I'm mostly attracted to the look of a specific ethnicity, but recently coming into contact them and finding out how they are, I'm going to have to give them up. Do not like their culture or the experience I've had with them so far which is unfortunate 'cause I think they're hott.

Anyone experience the same? Been attracted physically to girls of a specific culture, but once you get involved with them, meet people from their culture... it's just damn, I really hate your culture.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm attracted to all sorts of girls. I even find girls from my own culture to be a letdown. Why? Supposedly your supposed to have more success with your own race, but that's not always the case....
 
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I'm attracted to Arab women based on their looks, but the Muslim tradition that goes along with it could be a turnoff. Like the hijabs they wear, and etc.

Not that I have anything against Islam. When a pretty woman wears a hijab, it's sort of an indication that she's sexually repressed and shouldn't be pursued.
 
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SeymourCake said:
I'm attracted to Arab women based on their looks, but the Muslim tradition that goes along with it could be a turnoff. Like the hijabs they wear, and etc.

Not that I have anything against Islam. When a pretty woman wears a hijab, it's sort of an indication that she's sexually repressed and shouldn't be pursued.
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Not all Arabs are Muslim as your post seems to suggest. There are many, many Christian Arabs from varying sects of the religion, each with a different culture.
 
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konmai said:
I'm mostly attracted to the look of a specific ethnicity, but recently coming into contact them and finding out how they are, I'm going to have to give them up. Do not like their culture or the experience I've had with them so far which is unfortunate 'cause I think they're hott.

Anyone experience the same? Been attracted physically to girls of a specific culture, but once you get involved with them, meet people from their culture... it's just damn, I really hate your culture.
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May I ask what this ethnicity is?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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TillTheEndOfTime said:
Not all Arabs are Muslim as your post seems to suggest. There are many, many Christian Arabs from varying sects of the religion, each with a different culture.
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I know that, but I'm obviously talking about the Muslims who wear hijabs and other Muslim attire.
 
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