"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ATTN: Read the fricking Archives

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Alright most of the annoying afc's ask the same asinine questions. The site isn't as grandeur as the place it once portrayed. If there is nothing to read over in the current section, don't waste your time on the internet, get into the fricking field! But if you must stay online read something productive, hit up The Archives for some interesting and helpful materials. Who knows you might even find some helpful things for you.... "It is better to have and not need than to need and not have"

While your at it, there are other forums laying around that aren't located on the main forum page such as Success Stories and Unusual techniques. If you can't find it, ask a mod to show you.

If we cut down on the useless posts we could really clear up the material on the site, and also we can get an updated view on the older opinions in the archive.


P.S. When you get to the archive section there are 5 ( ! ) pages of material.... Just scroll to the bottom of the first page, and hit View: From the Beginning
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Microphone Fiend
Alright most of the annoying afc's ask the same asinine questions.
Ironically enough, this is the 227th thread that raised the same concern as you - check the archives if you don't believe me!:rolleyes: We all know this already - no need to beat a dead horse!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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