"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Attn Mods / Allen re: trolls

Magma

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ketostix said:
Well over there they banned and deleted my threads without any warning.
Ha! They banned my account and deleted my posts. I was playing the role of AFC simp and started a thread on creating attraction from a mangina's point of view. They kept THAT thread though, and deleted all the others! :cuss:

I think that SS is quite tolerant. One thing is for sure, many of us have a really great sense of humor and use that humor to counter all the b.s. from trolls.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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MacAvoy

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Phyzzle said:
Dongfu, Docs, banned for the same reason: pushing commercial products here without paying for ads. (via signature)
This makes sense and I can understand and respect that.
 

mpimpin

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Phyzzle said:
Dongfu, Docs, banned for the same reason: pushing commercial products here without paying for ads.
Advertising one's own site etc. is restricted to the signature. But some members like to slip it in their own posts and threads repeatedly. We give warnings about this the first time and sometimes even the second time it happens, but we have advertisers that pay and help keep this site running. We can't let the ads get out for free.
 
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