"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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attn djs that moved away from your town after graduation

Dhoulmagus

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How did you do this? I'm an accounting major, but I desire to live out west like in Arizona or San Diego. I heard it is hard to move out west because so many people live there.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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What always helped me to move were contacts. Anyone you might know there, even if they are an hour away from where you want to be. Someone at whose place you could crash, or who might have some temporary work for you.

Or, save up enough money for a few months of rent/living expenses and just go for it. Better have a fallback plan (parents?) if you go that route.

I managed a cross-country move a few years ago with $1900 in the bank, an uncle that let me crash for a week, and a friend that had a few weeks of temporary work I could do.

Within a month I was making decent money and had a nice little apartment. Nine months later I got a 20k raise and a place on the beach.

If you are in accounting, and close to CPA-territory, find out what you need to do to sit for the exam in CA and AZ and make it happen. That would be the more traditional path, aka finding a job in your field and relocating.

Out west is expensive, at least in SoCal. Looking at craigslist for a roommate is an idea. But also a crapshoot. If you really feel like you want to do it though, don't be too afraid to leverage everything you have to make it happen. There are few things more rewarding or exciting than taking that chance on a big move.
 

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It sounds like any place is better than your town, bud. Just get out of there ASAP and use couchsurfing if you have to. You'll land a job it's not that hard. Most people who are unemployed don't have marketable skills. Since you're an acctg major you'll have no problem.
 
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