"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

attn djs that moved away from your town after graduation

Dhoulmagus

Banned
Joined
Sep 11, 2013
Messages
1,695
Reaction score
169
How did you do this? I'm an accounting major, but I desire to live out west like in Arizona or San Diego. I heard it is hard to move out west because so many people live there.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

NewToTheGame

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 11, 2011
Messages
59
Reaction score
13
What always helped me to move were contacts. Anyone you might know there, even if they are an hour away from where you want to be. Someone at whose place you could crash, or who might have some temporary work for you.

Or, save up enough money for a few months of rent/living expenses and just go for it. Better have a fallback plan (parents?) if you go that route.

I managed a cross-country move a few years ago with $1900 in the bank, an uncle that let me crash for a week, and a friend that had a few weeks of temporary work I could do.

Within a month I was making decent money and had a nice little apartment. Nine months later I got a 20k raise and a place on the beach.

If you are in accounting, and close to CPA-territory, find out what you need to do to sit for the exam in CA and AZ and make it happen. That would be the more traditional path, aka finding a job in your field and relocating.

Out west is expensive, at least in SoCal. Looking at craigslist for a roommate is an idea. But also a crapshoot. If you really feel like you want to do it though, don't be too afraid to leverage everything you have to make it happen. There are few things more rewarding or exciting than taking that chance on a big move.
 

skinnyguy

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 2, 2013
Messages
3,422
Reaction score
1,235
It sounds like any place is better than your town, bud. Just get out of there ASAP and use couchsurfing if you have to. You'll land a job it's not that hard. Most people who are unemployed don't have marketable skills. Since you're an acctg major you'll have no problem.
 
Top