"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Attn DJs: How many girls have you laid this month?

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Serialized3 said:
I'll agree with you there. There's nothing better than sex with a girl that you have a connection with. Random hookups are overrated, and often times instead of hooking up with some chick I meet, I end up just having a deep conversation with them and getting to know them on a very personal level.

None of these girls are just some skank I picked up from a bar, either.

I would honestly say that the last girl, J, was more of a drunken hookup than anything, but I had known her from before. We actually talked that night and she revealed her insecurities, and she thought it was sweet that I told her that I had been there (depression) and that if there was a way I could show her how to get over it, I would have. And that's the truth. To a lot of girls a genuine, sweet, caring, romantic guy that ISN'T needy or a wuss is one of the hottest things they can get.

My friend K, I really care a lot about her, and I guess us hooking up is just a physical expression of the emotional level that we care about one another.

And then E...well... I'll get really personal here.

I'd been talking to her and hanging out with her for weeks. I had really gotten to know her and I was ridiculously attracted to her. Almost attracted to her enough to be stupid and put her on a pedastal, but not quite. I liked her enough to ignore advances by other chicks at the bar because I only wanted her. Well, anyways, I found out that she had LIED to me the night we hooked up and told me the other guy was just her friend. Then in the morning suddenly she told me they were "kind of dating" and that she just wanted to be my friend, even though she said some garbage about "I feel like I've known you in a past life"...which I had originally bought. And yeah dude, for the first time in a long time I was actually HURT by a girl, because I thought we were so good for each other. I saw reflections of myself in her and reflections of her in myself. The day that she dropped that bomb on me I felt emotionally dead. But I pulled myself together and time and persepective has helped to heal the wounds. I don't think about her anymore when I'm not around her, but when I am, it's hard for me not to feel bad. Sucks.

But, time and perspective heals all wounds. She's messed up, but there's more out there. I'm too young to think about that serious kind of stuff anyways.
Good Post dude :)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Precisely..... zero point zero.

i have self esteem issues which i really want to rectify before i begin to approach.
 

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Two, including your sister (same day fclose).
 

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God damn gonzalo, you are on point. i don't even know you and i already have a man crush on you
 

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Just one. She pretty much begged me to take her home from the bar with me it was pathetic. I think it's because she knew I wanted to take this other chick home, because I was all over her, and girl I took home stepped in.

Ended up hittin' it, but I would have much rather had the other one :(
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Since the beginning of this month it's been just three.
I've been researching and improving my business aspects plus had some business partner issues, so I really didn't have time to go fvck anybody.
 

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only 3 for me

1st one is my ex from a looong time ago, we still fvck from time to time, we fvcked once

2nd one is a girl i met at the club 2 months ago and we've been fvckin probly 3 times a week since then, so this month was probly like 9 times with her

3rd one is my "gf" (cuz she thinks we r together but i dont give a fvck) - we've fvck prob 12 times this month

yuppp lately stickin to quality over quantity i guess

heres somethin i think u'll all think is a SHOCKING stat -

about a year ago, i had a stretch of 2 weeks (14 days) where i fvcked ELEVEN DIFFERENT CHICKS!!!....seems ridiculous when i look back at it now, but makes sense, as I had 2 fvck buddies who i fvcked consecutive days, then i had a new girl who i fvcked for the 1st time the day after, then i went to montreal for the weekend and fvkced 3 chicks there....came back, had sex with my ex (mentioned above), then went to acapulco mexico for a week and fvcked 4 chicks there!!....thats 11 SHYT MOTHA****A - and THAT was back in my "AFC" days LOL
 

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Yo Krassus, I tried to send you a reply message about your mid game question, but it said your box was full. Just PM me your email or IM info and I can hook it up that way.
 

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I havent had sex

I havent had sex with a girl for over a year now.

sad.
 

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i havent had sex in the last few months but it almost seems to me that you get more with a LTR (just one girlfriend) then you do with all the bar hopping??
obviously i dont know just a guess
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Serialized3 said:
Allright fellas, I've had enough of reading useless posts like some chick whining about how to get some guy to fall in love with her (hint: show up to his house naked with some beer)

Brilliant!!!! :cheer:
I apologize I couldn't resist. Carry on.
 

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Krassus said:
Translation: hasn't gotten laid in months :)

But yea, to answer your question:: none! My LTR ended just under a month ago, and even though i've been approaching from day one, i haven't really gotten anywhere. The good news is that my fear of approaching is now nearly non-existant (can go direct on chicks in large groups with no anxiety) and my inner game is more solid than ever, but the bad news is that my verbal game has gotten pretty damn rusty. I'm planning to spend the entire day at the mall and on the beach tomorrow to address that. I'm reaaallyy eager to start getting digits left and right like i used to!
Hey Krassus!

You need to empty your inbox!

About your sig, what is better sosuave or that site on your sig?

What has helped you the most?
 

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B-Lemond said:
Hey Krassus!

You need to empty your inbox!

About your sig, what is better sosuave or that site on your sig?

What has helped you the most?
Yea yea its empty now :)

Which is better? I dunno. I like to think WSA is, but that's for you to decide.

Also, what do you mean by your last question?
 

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skip2mylou781 said:
about a year ago, i had a stretch of 2 weeks (14 days) where i fvcked ELEVEN DIFFERENT CHICKS!!!....seems ridiculous when i look back at it now, but makes sense, as I had 2 fvck buddies who i fvcked consecutive days, then i had a new girl who i fvcked for the 1st time the day after, then i went to montreal for the weekend and fvkced 3 chicks there....came back, had sex with my ex (mentioned above), then went to acapulco mexico for a week and fvcked 4 chicks there!!....thats 11 SHYT MOTHA****A - and THAT was back in my "AFC" days LOL
Holyy sh1t! How hot were all these chicks, honestly?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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two this weekend, 1 i meet from my friend gf, 2nd was a late night booty call :)
 

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skip2mylou781 said:
only 3 for me

heres somethin i think u'll all think is a SHOCKING STAT


about a year ago, i had a stretch of 2 weeks (14 days) where i fvcked ELEVEN DIFFERENT CHICKS
yep...only 4 for me

heres somethin i think u'll all think is a SHOCKING and IRRELEVANT and B.S stat -

about 2 years ago I had a stretch of 13 days where i fvcked TWELVE DIFFERENT CHICKS....wot are the chances?
 

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skip2mylou781 said:
only 3 for me

1st one is my ex from a looong time ago, we still fvck from time to time, we fvcked once

2nd one is a girl i met at the club 2 months ago and we've been fvckin probly 3 times a week since then, so this month was probly like 9 times with her

3rd one is my "gf" (cuz she thinks we r together but i dont give a fvck) - we've fvck prob 12 times this month

yuppp lately stickin to quality over quantity i guess

heres somethin i think u'll all think is a SHOCKING stat -

about a year ago, i had a stretch of 2 weeks (14 days) where i fvcked ELEVEN DIFFERENT CHICKS!!!....seems ridiculous when i look back at it now, but makes sense, as I had 2 fvck buddies who i fvcked consecutive days, then i had a new girl who i fvcked for the 1st time the day after, then i went to montreal for the weekend and fvkced 3 chicks there....came back, had sex with my ex (mentioned above), then went to acapulco mexico for a week and fvcked 4 chicks there!!....thats 11 SHYT MOTHA****A - and THAT was back in my "AFC" days LOL
the chicks from acapulco... were they mexican?
 

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L777 said:
yep...only 4 for me

heres somethin i think u'll all think is a SHOCKING and IRRELEVANT and B.S stat -

about 2 years ago I had a stretch of 13 days where i fvcked TWELVE DIFFERENT CHICKS....wot are the chances?

amsterdam?:up:
 

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Just 1 girl (my girlfriend), but I've lost count of the times I've had sex.

I don't have the will nor the time nor the energy for any more.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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