What I'm very happy about in this relationship of mine is just how gorgeous my girlfriend is. A definite 10. Ultimately, that's now also the cause of my worry.
We've been together for almost two years now. Lately (say, 3-5 months) we've been getting more serious. Mostly in all senses. And I suspect that's the cause for my newfound... jealousy?
Normally I always put up with the endless catcalling, random people from varsity getting her number and proffessing their love to her endlessly and all the whispers - without any difficulty. In fact, I found it comforting to know that I was everything they were not: typical.
But now.. eh. Some guy at her study lab got her number, and is insisting that she go out with him. Then one of her friends telling my friend how he'd love to bonk her and exactly what he thinks of her.
How do you boys deal with the whole 'she's mine, back off' mentality? I can't go use my baseball bat on everyguy that looks at her? Christ, I've actually considered it now
Oh, I'm also convinced that she hates the attention. Mostly because she hardly every complains about it to me. That sound strange? Well... yeah. Guess it does. But yeah. :-/ Admittedly, once I got insecure and checked her phone message records. Eish... I've never seen a girl swear at a guy, telling him to piss off, like that.
Ah, so there it is. Do I need a change of mindset? How does one go about doing that? All these chaps are starting to get to me. Worried I might loose my nerve.
Edit: What suddenly comes to mind is something DavidDeAngelo once said: "Hot girls get hit on all the time. All the time." So should I just accept that as something that always will, and always has, happened? That I shouldn't get upset over things beyond my control? Ehh... Now my mind's asking: "But what if?" :-/
We've been together for almost two years now. Lately (say, 3-5 months) we've been getting more serious. Mostly in all senses. And I suspect that's the cause for my newfound... jealousy?
Normally I always put up with the endless catcalling, random people from varsity getting her number and proffessing their love to her endlessly and all the whispers - without any difficulty. In fact, I found it comforting to know that I was everything they were not: typical.
But now.. eh. Some guy at her study lab got her number, and is insisting that she go out with him. Then one of her friends telling my friend how he'd love to bonk her and exactly what he thinks of her.
How do you boys deal with the whole 'she's mine, back off' mentality? I can't go use my baseball bat on everyguy that looks at her? Christ, I've actually considered it now
Oh, I'm also convinced that she hates the attention. Mostly because she hardly every complains about it to me. That sound strange? Well... yeah. Guess it does. But yeah. :-/ Admittedly, once I got insecure and checked her phone message records. Eish... I've never seen a girl swear at a guy, telling him to piss off, like that.
Ah, so there it is. Do I need a change of mindset? How does one go about doing that? All these chaps are starting to get to me. Worried I might loose my nerve.
Edit: What suddenly comes to mind is something DavidDeAngelo once said: "Hot girls get hit on all the time. All the time." So should I just accept that as something that always will, and always has, happened? That I shouldn't get upset over things beyond my control? Ehh... Now my mind's asking: "But what if?" :-/