"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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HAHAHAHA, B1TCH PLEASE!!

"Are you on your knees yet? Because you know that's where you should be. I want you to message me and beg for my forgiveness. Tell me how sorry you are for being a bad boy."
 

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KontrollerX said:
I was under the impression that "she gets it" and was simply making fun of horrible women.

It seems that sadly though it may not be a joke on her part after all. :(
Dude, hate to tell you but what she presented is the stereotypical beliefs that women perpetuate in order to serve their need for being appreciated (or for the extreme ones, 'adored'). As long as there are guys out there whose life purpose is based around women, there will be women around to take advantage of it.

It's a lot like women who work in strip clubs. They have jobs because there are men out there who will pay to see a woman naked. Some guys say that these women are taking advantage of men. It looks like that on the surface but guys willingly pay for this service. Can't hate the women for taking advantage of the "need" as opposed to the guy.

They're not targeting any specific guy, they're taking advantage of a market which needs that type of thing. They would take money from a woman who offered it to her in the club as easily as a man. It's not about the gender, it's about the market.
 

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Wow! I can't believe videos like that used to piss me off. Watching both of those, all I could do was laugh. The only thing funnier was the slew of comments by guys lining up to comply.

I don't think I was ever even that bad.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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HA HA HAA RemoteControl your video idea is the bomb.

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KontrollerX , I'm sure she is 110% serious. The concept of using guys is so ingrained in Hollywood, that some women think it is a career choice.
 

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remotecontrol rules!

These bytches have their wishlists on amazon and ****!

Oh my god! I was thinking "oh, real smart! This chick came up with something really original!" And tah-ra! There's a whole like, culture of these women! And they really get stuff!

I don't know about anyone else, but I did get turned on. I mean, she was talking sexy. I saw somewhere in her webpage I think, a pic of her. . she's chubby!

Guys who pay for this stuff must be like hibernating at home and never go out, I mean, they could always go and get a hooker! Much better looking than her with the price tag of any gift! Or simply watch porn!

Oh well, good for her. :up:
 

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Hang on a second. Are those guys in her video speaking for real, or are they being sarcastic and playing along? Because if they're not, I feel REALLY bad for them :eek:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Nygard said:
Hang on a second. Are those guys in her video speaking for real, or are they being sarcastic and playing along? Because if they're not, I feel REALLY bad for them :eek:
Don't be shocked. An abundance of men here in the states equate their self worth with their ability to provide for a woman. Hell, many of them have high paying jobs primarily to attract women because it to ties into their self worth. They don't even realize that taking the route of the "provider" role increases the length of time that it takes for them to get to the good stuff.
 

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Okay i DO like the way she taks (the first girl). Sounds and looks sexy, I'll give her that. Knows what she wants.

But guys who actually send her money are just retarded, not even AFC's. If she was with me id tell her to talk to me like that for a bit before she becomes submissive. It's all a game, but some guys don't get it. Only in America are there chumps like that.
 

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Most of the people in this forum are idiots. If girls gave you money and took you to dinner, it's okay... but it's not okay for a girl to want those things?

The guys in this thread who are mad are the guys who will never be able to land a chick like that in the video. They aren't really mad at her, they're frustrated because she's out of their league.

period

thank you, drive-thru
 

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I thought the whole faux sexy schtick was funny. It had about the sincerety of a phone sex operator.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Crimson Tide said:
Most of the people in this forum are idiots. If girls gave you money and took you to dinner, it's okay... but it's not okay for a girl to want those things?

The guys in this thread who are mad are the guys who will never be able to land a chick like that in the video. They aren't really mad at her, they're frustrated because she's out of their league.

period

thank you, drive-thru
I don't see any logic in anything you've just posted. "Most guys would never be able to land a chick like that". If you "landed" a girl like that, she would be a HUGE burden on your life (trying to take you for everything you're worth, always needing attention, probably sleep with other guys behind your back). Do you really want a woman like that in your life?? YES, she's hot, YES she's enticing, but hot girls are everywhere. Maybe if you didn't think the only quality that makes a woman worthwhile is her looks, you'd see how ridiculous your post is.
 

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Most of the people in this forum are idiots. If girls gave you money and took you to dinner, it's okay... but it's not okay for a girl to want those things?

The guys in this thread who are mad are the guys who will never be able to land a chick like that in the video. They aren't really mad at her, they're frustrated because she's out of their league.

period

thank you, drive-thru
Weee.Common chumps (80% of the population) give women everything they need, take girls to dinner, sustain them after their 29th birthday because they used to be hot..Isnt it okay for men to want those things from a chick? I dont even require those things, so get your act straight. Most women never buy their boy toys a dinner because they do it for them. You fail.
 

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First of all before you lable someone an AW, you have to know what your labeing. secondly the girl probably has more game than all the posters in this thread (including me). And thirdly I would recomend not watching her videos in succession or watching them repetedly... that is all I am going to say, you have been warned.

Love

Amethyst
 
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