Lord Shinra
Senior Don Juan
And give a fake name to.I.A.F.Y.B. said:those are the girls you fvck and never call back....
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
And give a fake name to.I.A.F.Y.B. said:those are the girls you fvck and never call back....
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Dude, hate to tell you but what she presented is the stereotypical beliefs that women perpetuate in order to serve their need for being appreciated (or for the extreme ones, 'adored'). As long as there are guys out there whose life purpose is based around women, there will be women around to take advantage of it.KontrollerX said:I was under the impression that "she gets it" and was simply making fun of horrible women.
It seems that sadly though it may not be a joke on her part after all.![]()
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Don't be shocked. An abundance of men here in the states equate their self worth with their ability to provide for a woman. Hell, many of them have high paying jobs primarily to attract women because it to ties into their self worth. They don't even realize that taking the route of the "provider" role increases the length of time that it takes for them to get to the good stuff.Nygard said:Hang on a second. Are those guys in her video speaking for real, or are they being sarcastic and playing along? Because if they're not, I feel REALLY bad for them![]()
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I don't see any logic in anything you've just posted. "Most guys would never be able to land a chick like that". If you "landed" a girl like that, she would be a HUGE burden on your life (trying to take you for everything you're worth, always needing attention, probably sleep with other guys behind your back). Do you really want a woman like that in your life?? YES, she's hot, YES she's enticing, but hot girls are everywhere. Maybe if you didn't think the only quality that makes a woman worthwhile is her looks, you'd see how ridiculous your post is.Crimson Tide said:Most of the people in this forum are idiots. If girls gave you money and took you to dinner, it's okay... but it's not okay for a girl to want those things?
The guys in this thread who are mad are the guys who will never be able to land a chick like that in the video. They aren't really mad at her, they're frustrated because she's out of their league.
period
thank you, drive-thru
Weee.Common chumps (80% of the population) give women everything they need, take girls to dinner, sustain them after their 29th birthday because they used to be hot..Isnt it okay for men to want those things from a chick? I dont even require those things, so get your act straight. Most women never buy their boy toys a dinner because they do it for them. You fail.Most of the people in this forum are idiots. If girls gave you money and took you to dinner, it's okay... but it's not okay for a girl to want those things?
The guys in this thread who are mad are the guys who will never be able to land a chick like that in the video. They aren't really mad at her, they're frustrated because she's out of their league.
period
thank you, drive-thru