Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
In your way wou will find many an AW, believe me. There's not much you can do about it, forget the whole "fixing them" thing... like most people, trying to show them the alternative will only cause them to build resentment against you. Best thing you can do is keep them around as social proof or whatever, and take them for what they are (ie NOT as anything serious; practice in them all you want, but don't get attached).Originally posted by Swoop
After reading those links, it does sound like I'm dealing with an AW. I wonder what causes a girl to become an AW. And is there a way to help them?
Or you could save yourself some stress, heartache, and pain by investing your time in other, more stable and mature, women.Originally posted by jigga23
Currently I have an AW Gf for about 1.5yrs. In the beginning they will smother you and do what it takes to get you. Basically aws have problems and feel that other people should have problems. If you brush them off they will most likely smother another smuck and fvck them right in front of you. but they will still want you. If you want an LTR with them brush them off in the beginning and do not fvck them for a while. Think about it most people will fvck them right away and get all attached. and once she has those guys calling her she will brush them off cause she feels used and wants to get them back. basically they like to make guys squirm. during realtionships they are cool but will pull some bull sh#t right out of the air for no reason. so when they do this say something and dont stand for it threaten to leave. If you do actually leave she will act like she doesnt care but give it a couple of days and they need you. all i can really say is proceed with caution when dealing with AW's because they will one time or another rip you apart just stay strong and it will be ok.