"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Attention Wh0res : How do you spot them?

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I tried doing a search and didn't find anything on this. So can someone define AW and list the signs to look for.

I have a feeling I might be dealing with one and if so, I want to be prepare.
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I was just reading rollo tomasi's post on spinning multiple plates at one time. In other words, have your account opened with more than one chick. This honestly I feel is one of the keys to being a DJ. This is the best way to prepare to deal with most AWs.
 
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After reading those links, it does sound like I'm dealing with an AW. I wonder what causes a girl to become an AW. And is there a way to help them?
 
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Originally posted by Swoop
After reading those links, it does sound like I'm dealing with an AW. I wonder what causes a girl to become an AW. And is there a way to help them?
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In your way wou will find many an AW, believe me. There's not much you can do about it, forget the whole "fixing them" thing... like most people, trying to show them the alternative will only cause them to build resentment against you. Best thing you can do is keep them around as social proof or whatever, and take them for what they are (ie NOT as anything serious; practice in them all you want, but don't get attached).

Why are they like that? ... can you count how many grains of sand are in a beach? Some things will remain a mystery forever.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Currently I have an AW Gf for about 1.5yrs. In the beginning they will smother you and do what it takes to get you. Basically aws have problems and feel that other people should have problems. If you brush them off they will most likely smother another smuck and fvck them right in front of you. but they will still want you. If you want an LTR with them brush them off in the beginning and do not fvck them for a while. Think about it most people will fvck them right away and get all attached. and once she has those guys calling her she will brush them off cause she feels used and wants to get them back. basically they like to make guys squirm. during realtionships they are cool but will pull some bull sh#t right out of the air for no reason. so when they do this say something and dont stand for it threaten to leave. If you do actually leave she will act like she doesnt care but give it a couple of days and they need you. all i can really say is proceed with caution when dealing with AW's because they will one time or another rip you apart just stay strong and it will be ok.
 
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Originally posted by jigga23
Currently I have an AW Gf for about 1.5yrs. In the beginning they will smother you and do what it takes to get you. Basically aws have problems and feel that other people should have problems. If you brush them off they will most likely smother another smuck and fvck them right in front of you. but they will still want you. If you want an LTR with them brush them off in the beginning and do not fvck them for a while. Think about it most people will fvck them right away and get all attached. and once she has those guys calling her she will brush them off cause she feels used and wants to get them back. basically they like to make guys squirm. during realtionships they are cool but will pull some bull sh#t right out of the air for no reason. so when they do this say something and dont stand for it threaten to leave. If you do actually leave she will act like she doesnt care but give it a couple of days and they need you. all i can really say is proceed with caution when dealing with AW's because they will one time or another rip you apart just stay strong and it will be ok.
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Or you could save yourself some stress, heartache, and pain by investing your time in other, more stable and mature, women.
 
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no.........

Swoop,

"Can you change them?"---------NO

Do a search on this site, type in:

*AW*

Also,

AW's are here today and gone tomorrow. ie. they are 'dumpers'

I have an AW right now....(they are only good for one thing--fvck buddys)

(A man will wake up one morning and his AW is gone.)

my 2 cents

cave dweller
 
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