"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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There is a girl in my social circle that was chasing me. She was texting, flirting when she saw me, she held eye contact like she wanted to fvck right there. I wasn't really interested since she wasn't that hot.

A month passes, she is still chasing a bit. I run into her in person. She lost weight and looks pretty good. I was busy spinning plates and had other priorities, so I was always busy and never asked her out because I wasn't interested.

Last week I figure hey I could use another plate and I tell her to meet me for drinks. She says "well my boyfriend would probably not like that."

She has been dating a guy for six months and didn't mention him. I think she was just chasing me for attention only. It worked, she "caught" me for a little while at least.

I played it off, but it's kind of frustrating to know these wh0res do this. I'm going to just ignore her from now on as she is (in my mind) a low quality woman. If I had a girlfriend who acted like she did, she would immediately be dumped.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Uncharted said:
I played it off, but it's kind of frustrating to know these wh0res do this. I'm going to just ignore her from now on as she is (in my mind) a low quality woman. If I had a girlfriend who acted like she did, she would immediately be dumped.
And that's how you know her "boyfriend" is a beta faggot.

Clearly this woman is only good for sex and/or FWB at best. :up:
 

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You could have been that guy she cheated on her beta boyfriend with. Then, when you have her, she'll pull the same thing on you and make you a beta boyfriend.

You dodged a bullet. Don't sweat it.
 

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Some people will tell you that is a sh1t test. And that you should say this or that. I will tell you a girl that says that is not interested or has extremely low interest and to move on and not waste your time.

I think that life is too short to try and use some magical "technique" to win over the affection of some girl that you probably won't be able to stand in a few years anyway.

And Darkdouche: I bet your momma is really proud you grew up to be a big strong troll. Go die.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Agreed on all the above except darkwolf obviously. Not really sweating it just intrigued to see this sh1t firsthand. I didn't respond to her IHAB with anything just said OK because I have lost all interest.
 
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Take her out of town, a different area code seems to do the trick.
 

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You phvcked up by taking a woman too seriously. At parties girls compliment me on how delicious my lips are and how muscular I am, I take it like a grain of salt and continue doing my own thing.
 

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SirFratserlot said:
You phvcked up by taking a woman too seriously. At parties girls compliment me on how delicious my lips are and how muscular I am, I take it like a grain of salt and continue doing my own thing.
Isn't it because you have thrown the white tower already. :moon:
 

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Now that you know your princess is in another castle, drop her ass and don't talk to her anymore.

Case closed.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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SirFratserlot said:
You phvcked up by taking a woman too seriously. At parties girls compliment me on how delicious my lips are and how muscular I am, I take it like a grain of salt and continue doing my own thing.
What did you used to do, when they said these things?
 

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SirFratserlot said:
actually try to talk to them back, but Id end up getting teased.
That's not a lot to gy by... did you turn them off in some way, and have them become less interested by your behavior / personality once you opened up? Did you flirt / charm back? Act light-hearted? Like a cool, funny, ****y, all-around interesting guy? In what way would they tease?
 

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Well, gotta go to bed... there's gotta be something else going on, though. I question how your social / conversational skills are...
 

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I talk to them briefly like I would with any other and the convo will last like a minute and they'll walk away to do sloot stuff.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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