"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Attention Seeking little *****es!

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Er... Just don't give her any. Attention that is.
 

PeterCrouch

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how can you not talk to her tho?

if she says hi when you see her what to ya say? if she chats on msn to ya what do ya do?
 

PeterCrouch

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ha shes an awkard little ***** too

asked her if she was coming to the end of year party

she said no

i said why not,

she said coz

i said coz what

she said just coz
so i said fine whatever,

she said ooo someones stressy!

i said no just cant be arsed to find out why your not going thats all,

she said k see ya and went offline!

cleary pissed with me haha!

what should i say now? really wanna wind her up, not so she hates me but what would you dj's do?
 

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she said k see ya and went offline!

What do you expect bro, you annoyed her. Now you want to really piss her off?

Come on man, grow up a little. After she said no to the first question, you should have dropped it and moved on to another topic. You should have found a way to flirt with her a little, get her interested, instead of badgering her about the party.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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PeterCrouch

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alright i dont wanna piss her off, im just annoyed by awkard and silly things she does and says!

is there anything i should do now then?
 

PeterCrouch

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should i text her and say something like sorry?

i didnt think guys were supposed to say sorry unless we did something really bad?
 

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alright i dont wanna piss her off, im just annoyed by awkard and silly things she does and says!

Why? There's a got to be a reason why you're letting her effect you this way.

is there anything i should do now then?

Don't do anything. Don't text her and say sorry unless you really want to annoy her and make yourself seem desperate, clingy or needy.

Get this chick off your mind and go find someone else to spend your energy on.
 

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You're giving her too much attention and you're wasting you're energy as well. Try for another girl and concentrate on the important things in you're life than some stupid msn convo with some silly *****
 

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Originally posted by sinner
You're giving her too much attention and you're wasting you're energy as well. Try for another girl and concentrate on the important things in you're life than some stupid msn convo with some silly *****
I couldn't agree more...DON'T EVER say sorry to a girl unless it's something really bad and forget about attention seeking little *****es...be polite say hello but don't hang out with them or listen to their **** and if they do things to get your attention either walk away or pay them no mind.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Well these days I usually just ignore those attention wh-ores, but I'll share with you what I did to one little wh-ore that used to play with me and use me in my AFC days... ;)

It only required a little DJ skills modified for attention wh-ores (not giving a f*ck about her, some heavy C&F, push & pull, switching from charm to challenge and repeat etc). After 14 days she almost admitted she wants me as a response to a C&F line. I just smiled, almost laughed you know what I mean. So at this time she knows that I know she wants me and that I probably don't want her. Next day when she started to talk to me, I just started to laugh. Maybe it was rude of me and wasn't at all DJ, but it's 3 months and she still is kind of shy around me and she has to meet me every day. It must feel really bad :crackup:
 
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