PeterCrouch
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i know one, how do i really piss her off?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Attention Seeking little *****es!
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Er... Just don't give her any. Attention that is.
PeterCrouch
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how can you not talk to her tho?
if she says hi when you see her what to ya say? if she chats on msn to ya what do ya do?
if she says hi when you see her what to ya say? if she chats on msn to ya what do ya do?
PeterCrouch
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ha shes an awkard little ***** too
asked her if she was coming to the end of year party
she said no
i said why not,
she said coz
i said coz what
she said just coz
so i said fine whatever,
she said ooo someones stressy!
i said no just cant be arsed to find out why your not going thats all,
she said k see ya and went offline!
cleary pissed with me haha!
what should i say now? really wanna wind her up, not so she hates me but what would you dj's do?
asked her if she was coming to the end of year party
she said no
i said why not,
she said coz
i said coz what
she said just coz
so i said fine whatever,
she said ooo someones stressy!
i said no just cant be arsed to find out why your not going thats all,
she said k see ya and went offline!
cleary pissed with me haha!
what should i say now? really wanna wind her up, not so she hates me but what would you dj's do?
biker_gixxer
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she said k see ya and went offline!
What do you expect bro, you annoyed her. Now you want to really piss her off?
Come on man, grow up a little. After she said no to the first question, you should have dropped it and moved on to another topic. You should have found a way to flirt with her a little, get her interested, instead of badgering her about the party.
What do you expect bro, you annoyed her. Now you want to really piss her off?
Come on man, grow up a little. After she said no to the first question, you should have dropped it and moved on to another topic. You should have found a way to flirt with her a little, get her interested, instead of badgering her about the party.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
PeterCrouch
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alright i dont wanna piss her off, im just annoyed by awkard and silly things she does and says!
is there anything i should do now then?
is there anything i should do now then?
PeterCrouch
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should i text her and say something like sorry?
i didnt think guys were supposed to say sorry unless we did something really bad?
i didnt think guys were supposed to say sorry unless we did something really bad?
biker_gixxer
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alright i dont wanna piss her off, im just annoyed by awkard and silly things she does and says!
Why? There's a got to be a reason why you're letting her effect you this way.
is there anything i should do now then?
Don't do anything. Don't text her and say sorry unless you really want to annoy her and make yourself seem desperate, clingy or needy.
Get this chick off your mind and go find someone else to spend your energy on.
Why? There's a got to be a reason why you're letting her effect you this way.
is there anything i should do now then?
Don't do anything. Don't text her and say sorry unless you really want to annoy her and make yourself seem desperate, clingy or needy.
Get this chick off your mind and go find someone else to spend your energy on.
I couldn't agree more...DON'T EVER say sorry to a girl unless it's something really bad and forget about attention seeking little *****es...be polite say hello but don't hang out with them or listen to their **** and if they do things to get your attention either walk away or pay them no mind.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
ImSoHorny005
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Well these days I usually just ignore those attention wh-ores, but I'll share with you what I did to one little wh-ore that used to play with me and use me in my AFC days... 
It only required a little DJ skills modified for attention wh-ores (not giving a f*ck about her, some heavy C&F, push & pull, switching from charm to challenge and repeat etc). After 14 days she almost admitted she wants me as a response to a C&F line. I just smiled, almost laughed you know what I mean. So at this time she knows that I know she wants me and that I probably don't want her. Next day when she started to talk to me, I just started to laugh. Maybe it was rude of me and wasn't at all DJ, but it's 3 months and she still is kind of shy around me and she has to meet me every day. It must feel really bad :crackup:
It only required a little DJ skills modified for attention wh-ores (not giving a f*ck about her, some heavy C&F, push & pull, switching from charm to challenge and repeat etc). After 14 days she almost admitted she wants me as a response to a C&F line. I just smiled, almost laughed you know what I mean. So at this time she knows that I know she wants me and that I probably don't want her. Next day when she started to talk to me, I just started to laugh. Maybe it was rude of me and wasn't at all DJ, but it's 3 months and she still is kind of shy around me and she has to meet me every day. It must feel really bad :crackup:
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