I’ve been on and off Tinder for the last couple years since a ltr ended. I’ve notched the occasional lay off of it in that span.
The thing I was pondering earlier was... when is the boiling point for some of these women who are on apps just for attention, but have no intention of ever meeting? Does it ever end? Until they finally meet their “Chad”?
I bring this up because I matched with a woman a couple years ago. We made small talk and then I brought up meeting up after a few msgs. She said she was broke, etc. So I said “no worries. hit me up if things change”. Left it at that and kept matching with other women.
A few weeks go by and she msgs me on the app and gives me her number. I give her mine back thinking “maybe she does want to meet”. I bring up the topic again. No dice. Says she is going through issues and recently had a panic attack. I just said “no worries. hope you get everything sorted out”.
This was in 2016.
This chick has txted me every few weekends for the most part for the past two years. There was one stretch that went a few months without contact, but that was it. She initiates all of the texts. I respond to less than 40% of them. They always say the same thing “Hey” “Hey there” “Hi” “What’s up”
“Well maybe she wants to hook up”. I don’t think so. I brought up hanging out again mid-last year when she texted and she brought up the issues excuse again.
I browsed her FB awhile back and see no sign of a BF, but I’m sure she does this to a lot of her matches. Just gets off on men msging and texting her. One thing I did notice on her FB was that she was a bit heavier in a couple of her tagged photos than she is in her main profile pics. I’m thinking she may be self conscious about that. If I had to rate her in the tagged pictures... a 4. If I had to rate her in her main pics (which were also her Tinder pics) a 7.
At which point is enough for them?
The thing I was pondering earlier was... when is the boiling point for some of these women who are on apps just for attention, but have no intention of ever meeting? Does it ever end? Until they finally meet their “Chad”?
I bring this up because I matched with a woman a couple years ago. We made small talk and then I brought up meeting up after a few msgs. She said she was broke, etc. So I said “no worries. hit me up if things change”. Left it at that and kept matching with other women.
A few weeks go by and she msgs me on the app and gives me her number. I give her mine back thinking “maybe she does want to meet”. I bring up the topic again. No dice. Says she is going through issues and recently had a panic attack. I just said “no worries. hope you get everything sorted out”.
This was in 2016.
This chick has txted me every few weekends for the most part for the past two years. There was one stretch that went a few months without contact, but that was it. She initiates all of the texts. I respond to less than 40% of them. They always say the same thing “Hey” “Hey there” “Hi” “What’s up”
“Well maybe she wants to hook up”. I don’t think so. I brought up hanging out again mid-last year when she texted and she brought up the issues excuse again.
I browsed her FB awhile back and see no sign of a BF, but I’m sure she does this to a lot of her matches. Just gets off on men msging and texting her. One thing I did notice on her FB was that she was a bit heavier in a couple of her tagged photos than she is in her main profile pics. I’m thinking she may be self conscious about that. If I had to rate her in the tagged pictures... a 4. If I had to rate her in her main pics (which were also her Tinder pics) a 7.
At which point is enough for them?
