"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Aristippus

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Moderators,

Hi. First, I know you don't have to be moderators and it's voluntary, so I appreciate it. Now on to my issue. I recently gave a lot of thought and time to replying to a certain topic only to see the topic completely erased (which means my replies were erased as well). I could have transplanted those replies to another topic that wasn't going to be deleted and they would have fit elsewhere or saved the information for future use. I basically wasted a bunch of time for nothing. If there's any way you can retrieve the info or copy and paste it into a private message to me I would appreciate it.

I might suggest, first to lock the topic, to give people who have taken their time to respond and put a lot of thought in their replies a chance to salvage the information, then after a few days, if you feel it necessary to completely erase a topic and its replies, to do so. But give some of us who might want to salvage the information that we put time into a chance to do so.

Thank you.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Go to your History.

Enter the Thread Title or URL into Google.

On the right side of the Green URL text below the Link Title, there is a a drop down arrow. Click on it and hit "Cached"

ie:

Attention Mods - Don Juan Discussion Forum

www.sosuave.net › DJ Discussion > Anything Else v <Click there and click "Cached"
 

backseatjuan

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It's not important what we think is important.


9/11 was an inside job, American government flew planes into buildings and killed their own citizens. I think that is important.

But moderators and majority in America does like to flow like crap on the river with the mainstream flow of thought, completely ignoring the physics.

It wasn't important for them, then why in the world for me, Russian, should it be important? I kept on spaming, and eventually there is a great following on this board. Now I don't even post that stuff, and just sit back and watch as others post. Myself, I left that stupid country, too much feminism and idiocracy, decided for myself I don't want to live in America nor raise my children in America.


My suggestion is not to post, argue, or invest time and energy into convincing others of something, but instead invest time and energy into yourself. You think something is right, do it, and better your life. Others might follow when they grow up to it.

Remember one thing, if a person does not respect your time and effort, then that person does not qualify to receive your time and effort. Why in the world you want to impress moderators? Who are they? Why are they moderators? What do they get from moderating? What is the object of moderating? Are they doing their job right? And finally who cares anyway.
 

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Aristippus-

I'm not sure what thread was deleted. The only threads we delete are ones that are blatant rule-breakers, but I don't moderate the Anything Else forum so try PMing Desdinova, Brad, AS, or SS666. They should be able to track down your posts.
 

Peaks&Valleys

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backseatjuan said:
It's not important what we think is important.


9/11 was an inside job, American government flew planes into buildings and killed their own citizens. I think that is important.

But moderators and majority in America does like to flow like crap on the river with the mainstream flow of thought, completely ignoring the physics.

It wasn't important for them, then why in the world for me, Russian, should it be important? I kept on spaming, and eventually there is a great following on this board. Now I don't even post that stuff, and just sit back and watch as others post. Myself, I left that stupid country, too much feminism and idiocracy, decided for myself I don't want to live in America nor raise my children in America.


My suggestion is not to post, argue, or invest time and energy into convincing others of something, but instead invest time and energy into yourself. You think something is right, do it, and better your life. Others might follow when they grow up to it.

Remember one thing, if a person does not respect your time and effort, then that person does not qualify to receive your time and effort. Why in the world you want to impress moderators? Who are they? Why are they moderators? What do they get from moderating? What is the object of moderating? Are they doing their job right? And finally who cares anyway.
wow....just wow
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Aristippus

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Thanks to SoSuave666 for solving the problem and to Bradd80 for offering to help via PM. I also appreciate Beginning DJs response. Unfortunately it didn't resolve the problem but I appreciate taking your time to try to help.
 
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