"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Aristippus

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Moderators,

Hi. First, I know you don't have to be moderators and it's voluntary, so I appreciate it. Now on to my issue. I recently gave a lot of thought and time to replying to a certain topic only to see the topic completely erased (which means my replies were erased as well). I could have transplanted those replies to another topic that wasn't going to be deleted and they would have fit elsewhere or saved the information for future use. I basically wasted a bunch of time for nothing. If there's any way you can retrieve the info or copy and paste it into a private message to me I would appreciate it.

I might suggest, first to lock the topic, to give people who have taken their time to respond and put a lot of thought in their replies a chance to salvage the information, then after a few days, if you feel it necessary to completely erase a topic and its replies, to do so. But give some of us who might want to salvage the information that we put time into a chance to do so.

Thank you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Go to your History.

Enter the Thread Title or URL into Google.

On the right side of the Green URL text below the Link Title, there is a a drop down arrow. Click on it and hit "Cached"

ie:

Attention Mods - Don Juan Discussion Forum

www.sosuave.net › DJ Discussion > Anything Else v <Click there and click "Cached"
 

backseatjuan

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It's not important what we think is important.


9/11 was an inside job, American government flew planes into buildings and killed their own citizens. I think that is important.

But moderators and majority in America does like to flow like crap on the river with the mainstream flow of thought, completely ignoring the physics.

It wasn't important for them, then why in the world for me, Russian, should it be important? I kept on spaming, and eventually there is a great following on this board. Now I don't even post that stuff, and just sit back and watch as others post. Myself, I left that stupid country, too much feminism and idiocracy, decided for myself I don't want to live in America nor raise my children in America.


My suggestion is not to post, argue, or invest time and energy into convincing others of something, but instead invest time and energy into yourself. You think something is right, do it, and better your life. Others might follow when they grow up to it.

Remember one thing, if a person does not respect your time and effort, then that person does not qualify to receive your time and effort. Why in the world you want to impress moderators? Who are they? Why are they moderators? What do they get from moderating? What is the object of moderating? Are they doing their job right? And finally who cares anyway.
 

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Aristippus-

I'm not sure what thread was deleted. The only threads we delete are ones that are blatant rule-breakers, but I don't moderate the Anything Else forum so try PMing Desdinova, Brad, AS, or SS666. They should be able to track down your posts.
 

Peaks&Valleys

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backseatjuan said:
It's not important what we think is important.


9/11 was an inside job, American government flew planes into buildings and killed their own citizens. I think that is important.

But moderators and majority in America does like to flow like crap on the river with the mainstream flow of thought, completely ignoring the physics.

It wasn't important for them, then why in the world for me, Russian, should it be important? I kept on spaming, and eventually there is a great following on this board. Now I don't even post that stuff, and just sit back and watch as others post. Myself, I left that stupid country, too much feminism and idiocracy, decided for myself I don't want to live in America nor raise my children in America.


My suggestion is not to post, argue, or invest time and energy into convincing others of something, but instead invest time and energy into yourself. You think something is right, do it, and better your life. Others might follow when they grow up to it.

Remember one thing, if a person does not respect your time and effort, then that person does not qualify to receive your time and effort. Why in the world you want to impress moderators? Who are they? Why are they moderators? What do they get from moderating? What is the object of moderating? Are they doing their job right? And finally who cares anyway.
wow....just wow
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Aristippus

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Thanks to SoSuave666 for solving the problem and to Bradd80 for offering to help via PM. I also appreciate Beginning DJs response. Unfortunately it didn't resolve the problem but I appreciate taking your time to try to help.
 
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