Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Attention Ho who JUST wants attention only

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I know this woman and she seems to adore attention from men. However the odd thing I notice is this is as far as it goes. She plays them like a fiddle but in the end I never see her leaving with a man and as far as I know she is not dating anyone seriously or at all.

Anybody ever see this before? I mean sure there are girls who like attention but eventually they settle in and date a guy at least for a while. Like I said I do not think this woman is dating ANYONE and hasn't for quite some time. What is the deal here?

PS whenever she has an especially good night (oh I met this guy and that guy...etc) she makes sure to tell me all about it. Always dropping names in conversation about how this one called and that one called but I am never sure who exactly these guys are.

just throwing this out there to see some reaction from my wiser DJ's...thanks
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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She may have issues. IT's like the stupid people who go to the pool and never get in the water.
 

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Realize that attention hoes ultimately need sex apart from male attention. The girl you are talking about probably has unnamed men who serve as her booty call that you or most anyone does not know about. So just because she does not have a boyfriend or you don't see her going home with someguy doesn't mean she is not getting any action from someone somewhere. Women are very discreet about these things. Case in point: I know this AW who happens to be best friends of a girl I am presently screwing. She openly brags about how many guys she is dating and all of the AFC things they do,i.e, buy her gifts, do her favors, etc. But, after they drop her off she sometimes calls her ex-Boyfriend when she is feeling horny.

Bottom line, there is more than meets the eye with women and their sex lives.
 

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Originally posted by sapphire

Bottom line, there is more than meets the eye with women and their sex lives. [/B]
Same thing for guys too.
 

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The girl you are talking about probably has unnamed men who serve as her booty call that you or most anyone does not know about. So just because she does not have a boyfriend or you don't see her going home with someguy doesn't mean she is not getting any action from someone somewhere.

I agree 100% I know this married HB8 who openly admits she loves attention and who loves getting spoiled by other men who treat her like a princess because she's a 'hottie'. HA! Guess how much attention I give her.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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hahaha like the comment about the pool and not getting in the water...perfect analogy!
 

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I agree with Sapphire. AW only tells you what she wants you to know. You never really know who she is dating and who is she screwing. AW mantra is all about the BBD -BIGGER BETTER DEAL. They are very hard to please, and they are always constantly looking for a better man out there so they can drop the stooge she currently dates.
 

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Perfect summation of the AW mentality and modus operandi by DJDamage. Bravo.
 

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Originally posted by DJDamage
They are very hard to please, and they are always constantly looking for a better man out there so they can drop the stooge she currently dates.
ditto
 

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so if when asked who she is dating...and she replies "no one serious right now..just dating here and there".. is she leaving her options open and playing the guy for a fool? wanting him to be interested and thereby giving her more attention? which is really what she wants...more and more attention and flirting
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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quote:
"no one serious right now..just dating here and there"..is she leaving her options open and playing the guy for a fool? wanting him to be interested and thereby giving her more attention?"

You never know what the fcuk she means when dealing with AW.
She can also means that she currently has a boyfriend, but she is not happy and she is ready to drop him for you or somebody else.

Oh and replace the word "dating" with the word "fcuking" - because they tell you always half the truth, to make themselves look good. AW never says "I am at fault this is an irresponisble behaviour and I am sorry" because for them, its your responsibility to make them happy and your fault if they end up cheating on you.
 
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