"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Attention Admin: Your 10-post rule sucks

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Snowman23

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You have to look at this objectively.

Number 1 - this isn't a union. It's a personally run website in which everyone is free to join and share their advice. Number 2, you're not footing the bandwidth bill, which means Number 3 you don't call the shots.

I've searched the previous posts of the people in this thread, and very few are even averaging 3 posts a day. On the occasions someone posted over 10 times in one day, almost half were either one sentence answers, not related to the topic or just smiley face emoticons.

Let's be honest. The tools guys need are already here. The DJ Bible, the search forum function, etc. What other ground breaking things need to be said that haven't already?

Regardess, I don't think it should bother people that much. If it does, maybe you need to reevaluate your hobbies.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Snowman23 said:
Number 2, you're not footing the bandwidth bill, which means Number 3 you don't call the shots.

They never asked for a donation. I bet plenty of people would donate a few bucks to keep this place going right?
 

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My Name is Nobody said:
They never asked for a donation. I bet plenty of people would donate a few bucks to keep this place going right?
That's really not the point. Currently, nobody is donating. I'm not even saying that's the reason. They're already saving bandwidth by not having avatars.

It's a forum, not a chatroom. They're obviously aiming for better posts. And honestly, there's a lot of useless ones out there.

Again, the information is here for people to use. I don't see how having a 10 post limit is going to affect your game.

For the record - I don't care one way or the other.
 
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Snowman23 said:
That's really not the point. Currently, nobody is donating. I'm not even saying that's the reason. They're already saving bandwidth by not having avatars.

It's a forum, not a chatroom. They're obviously aiming for better posts. And honestly, there's a lot of useless ones out there.

Again, the information is here for people to use. I don't see how having a 10 post limit is going to affect your game.

For the record - I don't care one way or the other.

To be honest the only person I remember posting 50 times a day is Iqqi, and that's not even a guy!
 
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I'm more of a lurker. Even if I see a good thread, I take in the information and move along to the next one. You don't need to reply to everything. 90% of the stuff in here is regurgitated anyway.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You guys er fishin fer a banning. Noticing threads disappearin again like back in the days of LMS.
 
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Mistic said:
You guys er fishin fer a banning. Noticing threads disappearin again like back in the days of LMS.

I'm sure they have their reasons I'm just giving them a hard time... besides, I never post more than 10 times a day.
 

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agreed, this rule is terrible
 

Warrior74

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I think off hand it's a great rule. It will force you guys to go out and do something instead of posting on here all day. Posting all day long talking to guys doesn't help you meet women. Think of the reason why you are here. Most noob questions can be answered by the dj bible or the search button.

It also stops the noobs from flooding the board with every little thought and insecurity that goes through there head.

sometimes a cooling off period is a good thing. Maybe this is what this board needs to cut down on some of the lame posts.
 

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I'm against the rule. I don't usually go past 10 posts a day, but on days when I do post a lot, I usually hit about 13 posts. The problem really isn't, for me anyway, that I don't have enough posts, but the fact that I am consciously not posting on some topics because I think that if I use up all my posts on a thread that isn't really important to me, like giving a bit of motivation to some guy ("Good job, keep up the nice work"), and then I won't have any posts left if an "important" thread comes up.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I think it would do everyone a lot better to just read the stuff that is on here. looking over the various forums, most posts are just senseless things like "when should i call?" "Gf is being a *****" and when dealing with **** like that, the best thing to do is to be your own man and make your own call. People depend on this forum, they come in and post a question of every dilemma they run into, which is not something that should be promoted or encouraged. People should come here to find inspiration, get motivated, and get back into the real world away from cyberspace. 10 posts a day is already a big number. Don't we have better things to do?
 

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There should only be a limit for the new members in my opinion, or at least a revised limit, like 15 or 20 posts, or maybe just a limit of being able to only start 3 or 5 threads a day. Most of the rubbish and junk posts on this site come from stupid topics and threads. Limiting the number of posts isn't going to control that, but limiting the number of threads you can start a a day would.
 

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I am obviously against it. Until this rule is lifted, I am not going to waste any posts giving relationship advice to guys who don't listen anyway. I need those posts to complain about the 10-post limit, and still fit in some off-topic talk about fighting, cars, and motorcycles.
 

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I want the rule lifted as well.
Why would you put a restriction on a person's advice/questions? :down:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sounds like a retarded rule made up my bored mods who feel the need to justify being a mod in the first place. The limit is retarded, even if I've never made ten posts in one day.
 

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the admin came up with this community to help people. now he changed the limit of helping people with limited posts.

so what? wanna cry about it some more?

quit posting.
 

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Go on a posting strike! Don't post at all!! That should work!!

The senior members or members with high post counts do not deserve to post anymore then anyone else. The DJ principle is a very subjective topic and there's few ways to prove who's more knowledgeable about the game then anyone else. Besides making 10 post a day is not difficult to regimine. Make them count for more when you do and you'll be fine.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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