"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Attempted reschedule thwarted. Maybe I should try this more often...

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Girl I am supposed to have a first date with tonight texts me and says she is really tired and had a tough day and asked if she could reschedule because she feels like she would be bad company.
Now normally I would just say OK.

However we had plans 2 weeks ago that got cancelled by rain and then tentatively made plans for Saturday but she asked to play it by ear and I told her I am not the wait and see type of guy so we scheduled for tonight. So I didn't want to take a chance of just going along with it.

So I texted her "I will be there at 8pm. You should join me. You can thank me later." She must have liked it because she said that I am a tough one but she isn't going to be at her best but she will see me then.

Guess I should try that more often.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Some women give in, some don't. You'll have success with being persistent at times. You showed her that you're willing to enjoy yourself without her and thus took the pressure off her.
 
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Date went really well, we vibed good and found out we had a lot of common interests including her loving my culture and actually having been there and wanting to go back...definitely going to be seeing this one again.
 
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The lesson to learn here is people (male and female) flake, there are too many variables to decide "they dont like you" based on a flake.

I flake all the time, I'm very emotional and sensitive, if I'm not feeling it that day then I close off.

Well played, player.
 
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congrats on passing that sh1t test
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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